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such a pussy
hi.sorry this is long but i need answers. well let me start by saying how much of a pussy i am. Ok this guy, he's like a "bully" came up to me, and his attitude is just real, crap. He's all "are you sure you're a man? youre like a man-beast" am like "ook." now how stupid can i get, thats the stupidest response i could have come out with. Im really really really shy, and im a guy by the way. Im huge but no one gets intimidated because im so quiet. im nearly 6 foot and im 15. So then today im at school, and he shouts my name from the other side of the room, and says "is your sister supposed to be bum?(hot)" im all "i dont know" now how stupid am i? i got real pissed off cause he was disrespecting my sister, but didnt say anything, and then the other guys were all "yeah she is, i saw her at parents evening" and then he comes out with "yo give me your sisters number?" im all "no, im allright" Now thats probabaly the pussiest thing ive ever said. what a effed up responce!? now if i said anything back like "F*** you" there would have been an up-roar. you just dont say stuff like that to people in my school (in leicester england) there would have been "beef" and he probaably would have wanted to knock me out. and he would have probabaly. with the helf of his "gangster" friends. Long story short, im a pussy. a big one. Why? Whats wrong with me? any help would be appreciated.
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This is kind of long, but I hope I'll help. First of all your not a P****,so you need to stop saying that. You need to boost your confidence, because if you keep calling your self that then the more you'll feel like it. Try saying something to him. About the sister comments, its not that big of a deal, just ignore him if he's far away and if he's not just be like Nah man. Saying f you would of been not necessary, so you did right. About the man beast commnent, what else are you supposed to say, if someone said that to me I'd be thinking that that person is an idiot and i wouldnt want to swear at them because its not really necessary in this situation so I'd say, ok whatever or look at him like he's a dummy and that's how he'll feel. Theres no reason to get all worked up over it though, he's not anyone important in your life, he aint your mom,your dad, your sister, your brother or your girlfriend, so all i can say is dont sweat it. If he decides to take it to a physical thing, then I say let loose, you'll be scared, but are you really going to stand there and let someone beat you up while all the students yell in the background? No boy, you better not. Kick his behind and show him that 6ft self can easily beat him. Also, you may have some insecurities about being so tall, but have you tried getting into a sport or modeling. Male models are hott, hun. You should think of something that can help you in multiple areas. Even if your not hott, who says you cant be on a comercial or in the nba looking good making dunks. Practice doesn't make perfect, but sure as hell brings you close to it. If you have any other questions about anything you can ask me. I hoped I helped.
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it's just how you are, you can't help it. you should try to do something though. think before you talk. you should have said that, and it would have been okay if he wanted to knock you out, you could have just fought back. one time wouldn't hurt you. plus, it wouldn't let people know that you're not gonna let people boss you around anymore. you're gonna start standing up for yourself.
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You are a pussy who didn't provoke some jackass into beating him up for no reason?
That's not being a pussy, thats being a halfway decent person. I rather be friends with a 'pussy' like you then an stupid, fool who gets themselves bloodied up each time some bully runs his mouth.
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