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I dont know what to do..
so i have these two best friends. and it just so happened that their boyfriends and my boyfriend are bestfriends also. well my two friends have lost their virginity to their boyfriends, and i didnt, and me and my boyfriend have been together longer than any of them!!! is this normal? i mean i wanna do it with him, but im scared i get hurt by him, i mean he is really sweet and he loves me but i just dont know..
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Of course it's normal. If you don't want to or if you aren't sure if you want to, then don't have sex with him. Losing your virginity is a one time thing, if you aren't ready, you'll regret it later. Alot of peer pressure going on with your friends, but try and keep your head on your shoulders.
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it's normal, if your not sure then don't do it ! you'll regreat it if your not sure, also you need to remember that (if its your 1st time) you'll always remember it and you don't want to remember like a bad boyfriend or anything or that you wheren't sure about it or maybe you shouldn't have done it ,,its normal, i've been with my bf for about 1 year and 6 months and still haven't done it cause im not sure and i don't wanna mess everything by getting pregnant or something , also if he's not putting pressure on you think about it really well so you'll have a memory you'll be happy to remember and not something you'll regret
hope i helped
diane
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Yes this is normal. Most girls think they are ready. Some girls just want to do it because everyone is doing it.
If you feel that the time is right i say go for it, But im not promoting sex becuase i dont know how old you are or anything.
But if you do decided to do it use protection because you can get pregnant the FIRST time.
And you shouldnt be scared because regardless of who you lose it to, someone can always hurt you.
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Dont do it just because they did.
The question is...Do you want too?
As in , do you want too because you want too, or do you want too because you will look cool to your friends?
You should speak with your boyfriend, and try too see when hes ready for it.
You can help ease the pain of first time sex using lubricants, fingering beforehand, and making out is a general relaxer before sex.
Make sure its for you the sex, not for them.
Do you have any proof they actually done it with their boyfriends?
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