I am a 20 year old college student majoring in Psychology. I have had many experiences thus far in fields of love, loss, school, family, and so on. I have this great ability to listen to people and respond with the best advice possible. I am great with dealing with the recovery from the loss of a loved one (can relate to a death in the family as well). I am also very good at analyising problems within the fields of living arrangments, school/grade problems, family problems, time crunch problems, and relationship problems. I am alse really good with what people view as the "weird stuff." I've taken many Psych classes on personality, thoughts, dreams, and everything in between. So, if you have random questions along those lines, don't be afraid to ask (nothing is too weird for me)! Like my username says, I'm here for you! I have a lot of experience and knowledge I want to share so hit me up and I'll try to help you out as best I can.
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I have an Australian Shepherd. Female/almost 3 years old/no history of illnesses.
I got home today and found yellowish dried vomit in three separate sections on the house. An hour later she threw up two more times. She's moping around. Her nose is cold and wet, which is good, but the inside of her ears are cold.
Please don't answer this with "Ask a vet" or "look up advice online." That doesn't help. If you have a link to a website with advice though, that will help.
Please help! (link)
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One of my dogs went through something similar to this. On top of the throwing up and moping around, my dog also did not eat. How is your dogs appetite? After a few days of this odd behavior, we found out that he had eaten part of a rubber toy, and it was stuck inside him. Honestly, I'm not a vet, nor is anyone else on this website! If I were you, I'd give it a day or two and see if she improves. If there is no sign of improvement or it even gets worse, I definietly recomend having her looked at by a vet. Just keep an eye on her and make note of every weird behavior she might encounter. Sorry I don't have any definite answers but no one will on this website. You can try this website if you would like but you know what is best for your dog so keep an eye on her.
http://www.helpmyhound.com/dog_diagnosis.php
Hope that helps! Good luck and I hope your dog feels better.
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wat are some good shark movies (link)
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Jaws 1-4
Deep Blue Sea
Red Water
Dark Waters
Open Water
Shark Attack 1-3
Twelve Days of Terror
and the list goes on...
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I am new to Facebook and just received a lot of friend requests from people I know, but didn't expect to add me. Did they manually choose me or did a request just get sent to me because we went to the same high school? thanks! (link)
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Facebook doesn't do friend requests automatically. It does however have a feature where people can look up their friends according to the high school they went to. So, they manually chose you from a list, a list which probably you were included in because you went to the same high school. Did that make sense?
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does anyone have the guitar chords for topeka by ludo? or any chords for any songs by ludo?
or a website that has them?
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http://www.ultimate-guitar.com/tabs/l/ludo/topeka_tab.htm
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was anyone a lifeguard last summer? im thinking about doing it this summer. did you like it? positives? negatives? thanks! (link)
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Lifeguarding is a great summer job, I've been doing it for the last six years and I love every bit of it. Whether you personally enjoy it or not really depends on the environment you are working in. Otherwise, it is pretty nice to spend your summer getting paid to be outside and sit around a pool all day.
Positives:
-working outside
-usually good paycheck
-you learn how to save lives
-you are given lots of responsibility
-you meet/talk to many different people
Negatives:
-you have to be very alert and not get distracted
-depending on the pool you work at, there can be a lot of down time with no one swimming (this can also be a positive though)
Hope this helps! I have a lot of experience with lifeguarding so let me know if you have any other questions.
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does anyone know where to buy tickets, and where in new york theyre having it???
thanks!!! (link)
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There are two dates in New York; Baffalo, NY on 7/22 and New York, NY on 7/26. You can get tickets on Ticketsnow.com or any other major ticketing company!
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Ok, im 16/f and a virgin. I really want a guy's opinion on this, but girls, if you know, you can answer to. Does it make a difference to guys if a girl is a virgin or not? Do you guys find it appealing, sexy, unusual, gross or what? Is it true that some guys sleep with virgins just becuase the want to devirginize them? Also, what is your opinion of phone/ internet sex? Thanks! (link)
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As a guy, I have a lot of respect for a woman who waits until they settle down with a guy. I find woman who sleep around with several different men to be slutty, but thats just my opinion (a little more of a conservative one too I might add). There are definitely guys out there who will want to sleep with girls just to devirginize them and thats just as bad. I find a lot of respect for those that can wait for the right moment. In the end my opinion doesn't really matter because it is each individuals own choice and right as a human being to have sex. Hope that helps!
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I am having so many problems with my recent breakup! I can't stop wanting him and thinking of him! I need him!
People say go out and live your life and flirt...but I just can't flirt. I never could!
I don't want to cry anymore and I want someone to make me feel better!
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I think you just need to get outside and do something productive! I suggest not hiding emotions though, don't go find someone just so you stop crying because you'll be with them for all the wrong reasons. Just keep youself busy, hang out with friends... I don't know, do whatever it is you do that makes you happy. But don't go looking for another relationship right away because it will only make things worse! Have fun and keep your mind distracted and happy! I've been through this before so let me know if you have any other questions, hope that helped!
Answer to 2nd Question:
Wow, your situation is sounding more and more like mine! I was in a college dorm situation where we had all the same friends and couldn't get away from each other. I'll be honest, it was not easy to get over, I had the same feelings where every time I saw her, I wanted to be with her, it made it even harder knowing she didn't feel the same way. I went through this stage where I spent a fair amount of time to myself just collecting my thoughts and restarting my life. I starting meeting new people and finding other places away from her to hang out. Eventually, my old friends sort of just followed started to realize it hurt me to be around her, so they split their time. At the same time, my life was very complicated (death of a loved one, police trouble due to the break up, bad grades, etc.) and I ended up leaving school and moving back home to recover. Don't let yourself get to the point I did, get out there and meet new people and have new experiences! Sorry for the long story, I hope everything works out!
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My friend has times when he can be rather depressed. He won't want to do anything, but I'll try to get him to go do things with me to get his mind off of things. Sometimes it will help. Btw I'm 15/f and my friend is 17/m. We're good friends and I hate to see him hurting. He has a girlfriend who he doesn't see very much and she is kind of a b***h, and his father abusive. I thought my friend was getting better. He had seemed happy, but then he stopped telling me about things and started keeping in his emotions, but it didn't seem that bad. He had talked about suicide before and I talked to him about it and he said he wouldn't actually do it. I know he has a big fear of death. He hates seeing people in pain. So, what got we worrying was his sister. She said that he has been talking about killing himself a lot, and she tries to comfort him. He always asks her what she would do if he died. His home has been getting kinda bad. I told him he can always stay with me and get away and I try to help him, but he needs more. What can I do for him? Also, he knows he's depressed, and once told me, he would do anything to stop it; medication, or even suicide. I'm very worried about him. I love him very much and don't want to see him hurt. Please tell me what I should do, how I should talk to him. What are some things I can do for him myself right not without getting outside sources involved? Thanks in advance. (link)
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The easiest way to get through stuff like this is to talk it out... He needs to get out his emotions in some way or another, it sounds like you may be the best source for this. I suggest flat out just having a conversation with him, ask him how he's doing, what you can do to help and just that you're thinking about him. Find a way to prove to him that he can trust you... that way he will be able open up and tell you what is going on. He can't hide behind his emotions though because that will someday lead him down the wrong path. I personally went through a painful time about a year ago and didn't have anyone to talk to. When my emotions got the best of me, I found myself punching things and hurting myself. I soon after found out that the best way to control myself was through talking. He may not be willing to right away but once you convince him its ok and that you're there for him, he will open up and let everything out. You can help him through this! Hope that helped, let me know if you have any other questions!
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Do guys find it cute when girls are totally nervous around them and say stupid things then blush about it...? Or do they just think 'what the heck is wrong with her?'
I'd like to hear from guys only please...thank you! (link)
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From a guys point of view, we are normally the nervous ones saying stupid things! I personally would like it if a girl was acting like that because that would put her on the same level as me and make the situation less awkward. I have a hard time with any girl who is too confident so I'd prefer they be nervous and act funny! Hope that helps!
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Why is it that some fellow advicenators tell young girls and boys it is okay to have sex or do other sexual acts "if they feel that they are ready" when they know that it is wrong. I believe they are just looking to get good ratings, do you agree? I'd much rather tell them the truth, that they are TOO YOUNG and have NO IDEA of potential consequences BESIDES pregnancy and get a lower rating than tell them it's okay. Am I the only one?
I suppose this can be seen as purely subjective, but is there anyone out there at or about my age (20) who thinks it's ok for 12 year olds to go around having oral sex and/or intercourse?
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I personally don't respond to anyone under the age of 18 with questions reguarding any variation of sexual activity! I, like you, am 20 and I do feel it is wrong to even give advise on stuff like that, let alone acknoledge it for the younger ones. I feel like most of the stuff they want to talk about should be their own business and no one elses, especially reguarding questions asking "should I do this or should I do that?" It is weird and faily disturbing to here about 14 year olds and their sexual activity, that is why I typically pass those questions without even reading them. Honestly, those kids can have as much sex as they want, that is their own decision. If I feel it is a question worth answering, I will give it my best shot, but I will never tell someone "you should go do it with him/her." Some people just need to make their own mistakes and figure some things out by themselves! Thanks for bringing up this topic, I completely agree with you!
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Does anyone know when the Sims 2 H&M Stuff is coming out for mac? (link)
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According to Wikipedia, the release date is April 8, 2008!
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Does anybody nkow a website that shows how the presidential candidates are doing? Like which states they've won? I've been trying to follow it but then I got kinda sidetracked and so now I'm behind. (link)
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There are a lot of websites where you can find this stuff but Yahoo seemed to be the most straight forward. So, here is the link:
http://news.yahoo.com/election/2008/dashboard
Hope that helps!
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im 16 and i need a job to get money for when i start driving. i dont babysit, so what options do i have? i dont really want to work at the mall, waitress, or at somewhere like dunkin donuts. that elimates more than half the jobs for teens, but any suggestions? (link)
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A typical job for someone your age that is not retail is a lifeguard! I don't know, it really depends on the area you live in and what is available. I suggest checking out websites like craigslist and yahoo for job postings! Also check your school and and other poster boards for listings! Good luck!
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Ok there is this guy who really likes me and wants to get to know me. I am not really interested in to him but I would like to be just friends. But when I am just friends with a guy who likes me, I always flirt. And I can't help it. I don't know when I flirt and when I want to I don't. It is just how I am. The guy always thinks I like him so then he asks me out and I say no cause I want to be just friends. So they are confuesed. But this guy is nice and funny but I want to be just friends. I know I will flirt but how do I get him to know I just want to be friends but without huring his feelings and stuff? (link)
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I'm sorry to tell you this but the only way you will make your point of wanting to be just friends is to stop flirting! Everytime you flirt, you are sending him the wrong signals, and as long as you keep doing that, he won't know what to think. In other words, he won't want to believe you want to be just friends with him if you keep flirting. I don't know what else to say it other than you need to control your flirting no matter how hard it may be to do! I hope everything works out, good luck!
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14/f freshman. I kinda want to change my life around.
Im smart [not genius], nice, pretty and have a few close friends.I never really been involved in sports but im working on that this year. Ive already signed up for a sport.
I want to have a bunch of friends. I want a bunch of people to know me. These days it seems like the only way to really be known is to act ditzy and thats not what i want. Also I want to boost up my flirting skills and hottness. What tips you got for me ? (link)
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Well, sports will definitely help your social life, you'll meet all sorts of people! I suggest not forcing friendships though because it will come back to bite you. The best advice I can give in gaining friends to go outside of your box. Talk to people you wouldn't normally talk to and you'll be surprised how people react. Don't act ditzy or anything like that, don't be someone your not because thats who they'll see you as. Just be yourself and be friendly to people and everything will fall into place!
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Alrighty so you know how you can get fined like a lot of money for using limewire?
Well, if you buy limewire pro can u still get fined?
Or are you like safe cuz you bought it.
Please help! Thanks :] (link)
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You won't get fined for using limewire. Just to be safe, I suggest doing the following: 1)Go to Tools, 2)Options, 3)Click on the Sharing Tab and 4)uncheck the Share Finished Downloads box in the lower right corner. Apply it and you're good to go. This makes it so your downloads cannot be shared with others. Sharing files with other people is what gets them in trouble so just turn it off. Other than that, your not going to get fined or anything! Hope that helps!
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does anyone know Any website from where i can watch the movie "SEX AND BREAKFAST"...
I tried searching for the movie links in movieforumz.net and some other movie forumz but the links there are not working.... I need links which are working
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Try this one!
http://www.peekvid.com/feature.php?id=4569
Let me know if it works!
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Ok my friend Terry (26) and I (23) are always very flirtatious, but really good friends too. And yes I do have a crush on him. We have been friends for a few years. I always catch him staring at me and when he realizes I catch him he just smiles because he loves it when I catch him. Like when I sit in a skirt he shakes his head and just says stuff like "Err that's not fair." like when we are at karaoke or watching a movie. He is always wanting to get caught doing something. and that is one thing that is exhilarating to me. Well with all our flirting we have gotten a little touchy lately. The other night we were watching a movie with some friends and we were cuddled up (like usual) with him laying across me on the couch. Our other friends fell asleep, I was massaging little parts his back and head, and he started slowly tickling my legs that he had been resting on. well..... it got a little further with him rubbing inside my legs tickling me and he… starting rubbing my clit. it was feeling really good until he tried fingering me. It just did not feel right and I told him not to do that. And he understood and stopped. I don’t want to hear that he was taking advantage of me because I could have stopped him sooner, and if he was he could have kept going. Now…I am a virgin and he does now that. We are both celibate ( we don’t have sex with anyone, for those of you who don’t know) and respect each other. It is just the way we are. Now is it normal that I don’t like it when he is trying to penetrate me with his finger? It just doesn’t feel good. Makes me queasy. I don’t like that I don’t like it because I want it to feel good. Also do you think this well effect our friendship? Also I have been trying to come up with some icebreakers how I can talk to him about this, Anything anyone can help me with would be great (link)
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I honestly think the only way out of this situation is to tell him the truth! If you don't have a conversation with him, it is definitely going to affect your friendship. Everytime you are around him, it will be pretty awkward. I suggest finding some time for you and him to sit down alone and discuss what each of you are thinking. It may be awkward at first, but if you are as good of friends as you say, it won't be too difficult. I respect your decisions to be celibate and I bet he would too. I think it is important to discuss stuff like this with him because it will help hime respect your space a little more. Anyway, the point I'm trying to make is that you should just talk to him! As far as icebreakers go, I suggest just jumping into it. It may be easier to get right off the bat why you are talking to him. I hope that helps, let me know if you have any other questions! Good luck!
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This is a really random question, but what's up with new inventions starting with an I? I-pod, I-home, I-dog, I-parent, I-grade, I-quiz, I-walk, etc. These are not all made by apple, so that can't be it. Anyone know? (link)
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I simple answer to this is that we are living in the so-called "ME GENERTAION!" Companies are using the word "I" a lot because people love seeing stuff about and for themselves and no one else! So, using the word I is basically saying the item is MINE. It's all about the "me generation" these days!
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