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total 360?
14/f freshman. I kinda want to change my life around.
Im smart [not genius], nice, pretty and have a few close friends.I never really been involved in sports but im working on that this year. Ive already signed up for a sport.
I want to have a bunch of friends. I want a bunch of people to know me. These days it seems like the only way to really be known is to act ditzy and thats not what i want. Also I want to boost up my flirting skills and hottness. What tips you got for me ?
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I think its great that you have a few close friends...and sometimes thats all you need. but if you want to be known more, volunteer to help your comunitty, join clubs, and sports. Not only will you meet new people but you might find something your really good at and really enjoy. (This stuff also looks great on College Applications) =]
And i agree with you today, the only way to get known is to act dumb. But what you don't realize is that these are the people that get made fun of the most. To be a better flirt, don't do anything you might regreat later. Don't get to involved in something you may not be ready for. When you meet a new guy just act nice with a little touch of something extra. This means your flirting in a less obvious way. And with guys..less is more. To look pretty just take your natural beauty and bumb it up. Don't paint on the make-up people(including guys)don't like cake faces. and this will also get you noticed for all the wrong resons. just take your best feature and emphasize it...don't cover it up.
I hope all goes well
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Hey well, it's actually a 180 you're going for. Do a 360 and you'll be right back where you started ;)
Want to know more people? Socialize with them. And no, you don't have to go sit at a table full of random people. Your friends have friends, right? Exactly. Volunteer answers in class. Partner up with someone else. Little things like that.
Sports will help you meet new people too so you're on the right track there.
Basically just don't let yourself be self-conscious. A big thing guys like is confidence (I know this because most of my friends are guys) and honestly, if you're putting yourself out there, talking, showing off how confident you are as opposed to how hot you are, you're much more likely to be noticed, and for the right reasons. Essentially, to achieve what you want, you're being yourself, but better. If that makes any sense.
-LM
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Well, sports will definitely help your social life, you'll meet all sorts of people! I suggest not forcing friendships though because it will come back to bite you. The best advice I can give in gaining friends to go outside of your box. Talk to people you wouldn't normally talk to and you'll be surprised how people react. Don't act ditzy or anything like that, don't be someone your not because thats who they'll see you as. Just be yourself and be friendly to people and everything will fall into place!
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