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I can't do it!
I am having so many problems with my recent breakup! I can't stop wanting him and thinking of him! I need him!
People say go out and live your life and flirt...but I just can't flirt. I never could!
I don't want to cry anymore and I want someone to make me feel better!
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i just recently broke up with my boyfriend for three years.
i have known him for seven.
yeah, i miss him. but i am over him. i thought of it non stop for two weeks regretting it.
yeah, it sucks being single. but you will start liking not having to answer to someone, or waiting by the phone to get a phone call.
the first weeks are the hardest.
youll get through it.
good luck.
*message me if you need anymore help.
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I know it is hard especially when you break up with someone you like alot but the best thing to do is find a common hobby. Think of something that you always wanted to learn but never had the time. I just got through a terrible breakup myself and decided to learn how to play bass guitar. Learnign how to play made me focus all my anger and energy into the music that it made the thought of him a little less painful. The more I practice the more I enjoyed playing to the point I don't even remember what he looks like now. I wouldn't say go out and flirt until you have fully gotten over the guy. Maybe take some time to find yourself and what you like to do.
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I think you just need to get outside and do something productive! I suggest not hiding emotions though, don't go find someone just so you stop crying because you'll be with them for all the wrong reasons. Just keep youself busy, hang out with friends... I don't know, do whatever it is you do that makes you happy. But don't go looking for another relationship right away because it will only make things worse! Have fun and keep your mind distracted and happy! I've been through this before so let me know if you have any other questions, hope that helped!
Answer to 2nd Question:
Wow, your situation is sounding more and more like mine! I was in a college dorm situation where we had all the same friends and couldn't get away from each other. I'll be honest, it was not easy to get over, I had the same feelings where every time I saw her, I wanted to be with her, it made it even harder knowing she didn't feel the same way. I went through this stage where I spent a fair amount of time to myself just collecting my thoughts and restarting my life. I starting meeting new people and finding other places away from her to hang out. Eventually, my old friends sort of just followed started to realize it hurt me to be around her, so they split their time. At the same time, my life was very complicated (death of a loved one, police trouble due to the break up, bad grades, etc.) and I ended up leaving school and moving back home to recover. Don't let yourself get to the point I did, get out there and meet new people and have new experiences! Sorry for the long story, I hope everything works out!
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You "want" him because you cant have him. Best thing for you to do is to find some activities that will take your mind off everything. like exercise.
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