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She just won't get a clue!
Alright, there is this girl at school(Let'scall her Olivia), and she is REALLY REALLY annoying...if you walk faster than her, she;ll start saying in a whiny voice "Hey, wait, wait for me!" or something, and she cuses a lot, she flips people off, and one day, when I came into school late, she tried to hug me, but I was like 'I don't want to hug, but it's great to see you!' and then my friend calley came up and hugged me and I hugged her back. And yet Olivia honestly won't take a hint! Also, she;s one of those girls who won't stop doing something if you tell her to stop. Like, with another friend,Olivia wouldn't stop hitting her, now there is a place on me where you can hardly touch and it tickles and such. Well, she won't stop and I've told her too, but she won't. It's on my last nerve, what can I do to get her to leave me and my friends alone?(All my friends don't like her, and she is honestly like...a stalker because she'll follow you everywhere!) please, I really need some help. Thanks so much!
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tell her nicely that you think she needs to back off if she cries walk away be strong.
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No no, don't be mean! That's horrible. I just meant try to get your point across that you don't want to hug all the time but still be nice. =)
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You might not like my advice.
But, Ive been in OLIVIA'S spot (in middle school.) I was kind of a loser. And I was very socially awkward. Many times, I had the same behavior as you described Olivia to be like. I hate to say that, but Im being totally honest here. School sucks and some kids handle it differently. Im going to tell you that for you to say 'I don't want to hug, but it's great to see you!' and then go and hug your other friend is mean and a cliquy thing to do.
You sound like you dont like her because your friends dont accept her. Shes only doing these things to get friends. Its her way of getting attention. Face it: the more you exclude her, the more she's going to want your attention. Its just a true fact. She might grow out of it, soon. But, for now I can only tell you being the bigger person than your friend will definitely benefit you in life. Theres a lot of Olivia's out there. But, her purpose ISNT to annoy you. She just wants someone to talk to..shes probably very alone. I would be nice to her. No one says you have to call her up and hang out, but be patient with her.
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