i've never hooked up with anyone before, as in kissing. and i dont want to ask anyone in person because i dont want anyone to know i havent hooked up with anyone yet. its just im sooo nervous about doing it wrong. i kno there is no actual way to do it, but im just wondering for tips or just instructions on how to. and please be as specific as possible thanks soo much
sophiekate answered Friday January 26 2007, 1:57 am: Hey there. I felt exactly the same when I was younger (I'm 21/f now) so don't worry. I think everyone is a bit daunted by it since kissing has been in your face in the movies your whole life and it dawns on you that you don't really get how to do it...
The main thing is, don't get worked up about it, and don't go looking for someone to hook up with! It'll all happen in time and I hope it does for you when you want it to happen (and are sober - that helps for a much better first kiss!).
Some practical advice, I guess, is just to kiss someone like you'd kiss your own hand (to start with). Lick your lips first, be really gentle, take it slowly and don't try and use your tongue. Trust me, you get the hang of it pretty quickly! Good luck :) [ sophiekate's advice column | Ask sophiekate A Question ]
karenR answered Thursday January 25 2007, 9:51 pm: Heres some tips.
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