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Jon && his lies
I'm a 15 year old girl and I know everyone who answers me is going to tell me that love doesn't exist at 15, so I'm going to say, I " like " this guy named Jon. We went out and my friend gave me this birthday present and Jon was like " Where did you get it" and I said " Brad gave it to me for my birthday" and Jon told me to give it back. Jon is very controlling and wont let me get a word in when he's in his controlling moods. I told him I wasn't going to give the present back because it's rude and Brad might think I don't like it and I do. When I said I wouldn't give it back he got mad and of course left me. I asked him later why he even loved me and he just said " I don't, bye. " I was really hurt and I cried for 3 hours. My friends cheered me up for that moment but I'm still upset. What should I do? Thanks in advance.
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foget this guy u can do so much better. You should never date someone who's that controlling relationships like that hardley ever work.
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Hey,
First off you shoudn't be with a guy that treats you like dirt and it was really imaturer for him to act like that .You should be careful if he really is that controlling it could lead to bad things . In my opinion you should find a much better guy that respects and loves you . Hope this helps !!:)
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Well, just so you know love can exist at 15. My parents got married at 13(mom) and 17(dad) and they've been married 40 yrs. So it can. And anyways, you are prob. a great girl and you dont deserve someone who's gonna control you. And another thing, guys your age are less mature than you are. So just try not to worry about it. One day he'll see how great you are and realize his mistake, if not, he doesn't deserve you anyway. :) ~nickie
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Forget him. You need a guy that cares for you. This is a chance to see if he does.
You shouldn't talk to him or anything for a while, and see if he goes back to you. He should apologize.
But you should do things that make you happy and make plans with your friends to get your mind off of it.
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controlling boyfriends turn into ABUSIVE HUSBANDS. I know you "like" him...but is it worth the pain?? Why would you want someone controlling you like that? You are your own person...you can make your own decisons. As for the gift, don't give it back! It was a gift from a FRIEND. you should explain that to Jon...if he still doesn't understand, dump him. There are HUNDREDS of better guys for you. You deserve better than a control freak.
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Hi, you should probaly go and see were he is and try and talk it over. It's good that you've got friends who are looking out for you. Have a talk to them and see what suggestions they give you as well. Daniel.
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He was much too controlling. The best thing to do would be let it go, and move on. (Though I know that's hard to do when you "like" someone.)
There's plenty more guys out there that are less controlling, so go get `em.
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My advice (though I know you probably won't take it), is to let him go and don't go running after him.
He is much to controlling. If you let him do it now he will only get worse. I don't think you would enjoy someone telling you what you can do and who you can see or be friends with for very long. So, if you feel you really can't live without this guy...put a stop to the controlling behavior now. If he can't stop, you don't want him. :)
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