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slut . yeah
okay so i am known as the BIGGEST slut in my whole entire school . well thats waht i have heard. like theres a group of kids that are calling me a slut and saying i got fingered and gave a bunch of guys blowjobs . its really getting on my nerves because i havent done that . i have made out with only THREE guys . and most of them have lost their virginity . how can i prove that im not a lsut?
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Just take it cool for a year. Most people forget reputations over the summer. Proove to them that youve changed. Or if you dont want to do that then just dont tell anybody what youve done.
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well, all i can say is prove them wrong. dress properly, be nice to everyone, and ignore the haters. good luck ~nickie
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well i have a friend thats like you just dont hang out with so many guys they could be jelous most teenagers are even though im almoast 14 i dont get jelous that much if most of your friends are guys maybe you need some more friends that are girls and try to find out who started the rumer and talk to her saying that it bothers her or talk to a councler just because you made out with 3 guys doesnt mean your a slut it doesnt mean anything really and every one can have a high school sweet heart if you have a bf that you stay to maybe people will stop callin you names or ignore them because soon they will stop my mom tells me its what you think of yourself. so what do you think you are ?
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There's really no way to "prove it" to other people. They're just talking about you because they have nothing better to do. People say the same things about me, but if you KNOW that it's not the truth, it shouldn't bother you. They'll find someone new to talk about before long and no one will even remember that they said all that stuff. If they actually say something to your face about it, you should just tell them to mind their own business. If their lives are so boring that they have to make up rumors about people... they must need something to do.
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You can't get them to stop saying stuff, sorry.
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The only reason they are saying this stuff, is to make themselves feel better. They obviously (spelling) have self-issuess and they need to make your life a living hell, to feel better about themselves.
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They feed off your reaction. How you respond to what they are saying. Ignore them. If you don't give them a reaction, then they their plan of hurting won't work. Just don't care. You know the honest truth about yourself, and they don't. So why care about what they are saying, when you know it's not true. Everytime they say something about you, you react to it, and they feed of it. If you pretend as though you don't care, they will relize that what they are saying has no effect on you, and eventually move on. It will suck in the mean time yes, but rememeber what they are saying is a lie. You know the truth, and thats all that matters.
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usually in teen life, the word slut is accompanied by bitch. This would either mean (assumeing your not either one) that people dont know you. Start being open to people. You dont have to act in a conservative mannor, but dont be skanky. Just get to know people better. Dont dismiss the nerds or geeks either. Talk to everyone and be open but not in a dangerous way (i.e., like dont be open to drugs & illegal things). Try being really nice to people. Oh and dont hang all over a guy in public. Dont be down someones throught infront of people. Thats private buisness and noone needs to see it.
Avoid:
bitchy moments, blonde moments, ditsy moments.
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i can relate to this, you see if you give in to what their saying its only going to make them tease you more and more about how your this big "slut". i think if you know who you are and what you do then its fine. don't care what they think about you. and if they continue then i would just ignore them totally and eventually they will get the picture to just leave you alone. good luck!
-Bess
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You can't convince anyone anything. Teenagers are like that. They belive what they want and make something seem bigger than it is. It might be hard, but just ignore them. Don't try to change their mind because chances are they will still call you a slut. It's pathetic but don't worry about it because YOU know that you aren't like that and you know you didn't do anything so who cares what they say. Just don't talk about your personal life to other people. They're stupid and don't know. The more they know it bothers you, the more they will do it.
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I hate people who start shit , you honestly don`t need to prove them anything.Don`t listen to them they have nothing better to do, just act like you don't care. ♥
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You do not have to prove anything to anyone.
But if you must...
Wear conservative clothes
Do not speak of sex related things
Do not act sluty period
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