I'm 13 years old and I really want to have a BF. However, I know that most BF/GF relationships usually begin by being friends 1st. How can I become friends with boys?
xo_minela answered Thursday July 20 2006, 9:29 pm: Well , it`s really not that hard. All you have to do is just go up to a boy that you think seems cool/nice & then be like hey whats up? & just talk & then do that to other boys that you want to be friends with! & before you know it you`ll have a boyfriend! =] Hope i heped! Good Luck! [ xo_minela's advice column | Ask xo_minela A Question ]
Chicchicaabr answered Thursday July 20 2006, 6:25 pm: It's almost the same as becoming friends with girls. Just get into things they're into, like a certain sport or whatever. Don't act like a total airhead around them, either, just act like yourself. And if you're just making friends with guys to get a bf, and not to get to know them better, forget it, because the best relationships are usually the ones that come out of the blue and aren't forced. And that's another thing. Don't act desperate and flirty at first. Become good friends, and if you both feel like you want the next level, go for it, but if not, accept the friendship as it is, because he may have hot friends! (lol)
Alice [ Chicchicaabr's advice column | Ask Chicchicaabr A Question ]
lookitslorin answered Thursday July 20 2006, 3:26 pm: To be friends with a guy isnt that hard. You just talk about things that intrest you both. If he wants to be friends, then he will help with the convorsation. Dont just talk about things that he likes, talk about things that intrest you too. Hope I have helped :] [ lookitslorin's advice column | Ask lookitslorin A Question ]
imperfection_isbeauty answered Thursday July 20 2006, 3:24 pm: Just be yourself, and start talking to boys in your classes or try and plan like a group movie. so your with your friends and some boys to. that way you can meet new boys! just be confident. guys love a girl with confidence! and try not to be fake either, or extremly open! hope i helped [: [ imperfection_isbeauty's advice column | Ask imperfection_isbeauty A Question ]
FrEe2bMe answered Thursday July 20 2006, 2:55 pm: Well you are the perfect age to do that. Junior high is all about meeting some new people, and starting to discover what you like, and who you like. You shouldn't be in any rush to date yet though. I mean...you can't drive at this age so basically your dates would consist of your parents picking you up and dropping you off. Since it's summer you have free roam to invite guys to hang out and stuff. Talk to them online first to get comfortable. Make comments like: We need to hang before summers over! You and some girls and some guys could go to the movies, bowling, out to eat, swim, put put. Anything. Just be yourself and have fun and the boys will come..they always do! :) [ FrEe2bMe's advice column | Ask FrEe2bMe A Question ]
NiCOLELYNNxo answered Thursday July 20 2006, 2:40 pm: Well, if i were you i would consider hanging out with the guys also.
Like, such if you had AIM or e-mail; you could ask to go hang out at the movies or go with a couple of your girl & guy friends. It's pretty easy except you have to relaize that most of your friends are obviously girls & nothing can change that. You always have to treat them differently.
Also, another thing i would do is find maybe 2-3 really close guy friends that are single & keep them close. Like have movie days every friday night or maybe they could come over to do homework. However make sure your parents are okay with that. Well hope this all works out!
Nicole Lynn. [ NiCOLELYNNxo's advice column | Ask NiCOLELYNNxo A Question ]
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