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Boyfriend.......
Okay well this going to sound werid but I have this internet boyfriend he use to live by me but he moved and like now im datting him and i really want his number but im afraid to ask him and like I don't know how to like ask him like being all nice and not tring to be like I want it so bad ya kno? and what should I say. And I'm also kinda like afriad to hear his voice so what do i do to like make this fear go away. can someone plz help me.
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all you have to do is say :
hey you should call me it will probably be better than talking on here my hands are getting cramps or something.. make up an excuse :) give him your number instead so its not as hard to ask for him.
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I can understand the nervousness, but all you gotta do is play it cool. :] Just take some deep breaths before you say it to him, and just casually be like,"Hey, what's your number? I wanna hear my boyfriends voice. :]" Or maybe whenever he's leaving or you're leaving to go somewhere and get off the computer be like,"Hey, can I have your number so I can talk to you later? :]" Or something. Just be cool and casual about it, I'm sure he's not going to be like "NO" or anything, I mean, you ARE dating him!
I was in this same situation with my online boyfriend, I was so nervous at first, but then we started to talk about what we were up to and what happend that day, and sooner or later, we realized we had been on the phone for like, two hours! Just talk to him like you would on the internet, everything'll be just fine.
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I hope I helped.
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I think you shouldnt be so affraid if you like him, just type in randomly, so whats your phone number. and as for the call just play it cool say things like wow this is pretty cool JUST DONT WORRY TOO MUCH
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Well, before you do that, ask him for his address to send letters just as if you guys were "penpals" Haha, that's one way to start. Then in your letter, say your computers going to be down for a while and you won't have internet access too much and ask him for his number saying you don't want to write..
If you don't want to get his address, just simply say, "What's your number? (Excuse here)"
Excuses:
1-I have to go but I still want to finish that LONG story
2-I broke my hand and it's hard to type
3-I'm too lazy to type
Hehe, those always work...well maybe not 1.
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I always get nervous with these things. Even just IMing boys. Just be like.. I have to get off online soon, wanna call me? or something like that, if he says no i'm busy or something..then just say ok. Or, what I've done before is when I have friends over I have them talk to him, & they'll be all, whats your number will call you, & then that makes it alot easier. Its hard I know, but thats what I do..
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haha... well if your dating him!! just ask him, just casually be like heyy...we should talk on the phone sometime, whats ur number? and then just go from there! just tell urself that hes worth talking to (if he is)...and get up the courage and do it!! as for hearing his voice, that will probably make you like him more, you'll be of a more intimate level then you were before. haha good luck!
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