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in love but FED UP!
okay, so me and my bf are having problems ever since we got back from winter break. well, should i say.. im having problems. lately, he's been talking to his ex lately more and more. i keep thinking in my head that he's cheating on me with her but, people that know him pretty well say he's not the TYPE of person who would do that. today, i asked him.. if he had the guts to break up with me. his answer was "no...well, if i had to, but i dont want to break up." its soo hard.. my head has been going crazy with these thoughts about having him cheating on me. i asked him if theres anything going on, and he said no&&he loves me, i gave plenty enough chances to break up with me.... but he hasnt. the thing is, he's driving me crazy......usually he says i love u or sumthing like cute or nice or at least say goodnight to me before i sleep.. but he hasnt done that. he says "i fell asleep cuz i was waiting for your text." what does this mean... seriously... my head says "he's cheating on you, break it up with him" and my heart says "dont do anything dumb, you know you love him and you trust him.", what should i do?
im desperate here.
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This is a tough problem. If you truly know him well enough, you should be able to tell if he is acting different around you or if he is the kind of person to cheat on a girl. It may not be the most mature thing to do, but you could find other resources. You could ask his friends or even his ex's friends about it. Then, if you find evidence that could support the fact that he's cheating, confront him about it. Don't say "you're cheating on me because..." but "why did you do this and this, it doesn't look so good to me" or something like that. I know I'm not the best advice giver, but I hope I helped.
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If you love this guy like you say you do, you need to put ALL your trust in him. He's not leaving you for a reason. You are letting your jealousy get the best of you and thats not good. If You go to far he will get tired of it and he really will leave you. So i say wait it out a few more months. At least you know he is talking to his ex and he's not keeping it from you. If he was keeping it from you then I would see a problem. Go with your heart on this one.
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