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Ok, this may sound weird but how do you breathe when you are making out? I dont know because I have never made out before, i know im a lame 15 year old girl lol. but i would really like to know and also, how exactly do you make out? (link)
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That's not lame at all.
For the breathing question, while your making out breathe lightly out of your nose. Once your actually making out, that part will come pretty naturally if you don't think about it too much.
There isn't really a certain way to make out, but some people say to start with light kisses, and as your kissing very slowly pull your head back to bring him closer to you. Tilt your head to one side, and he'll tilt his to the other so your noses don't get in the way. You can put your hands on his cheeks, waist, back, or neck, and he'll probably do the same to you. If he wants to french kiss and your not comfortable with that, pull away a little bit and keep your mouth closed so he knows your okay with kissing, but not tongue. If you are okay with tongue, slowly slip yours into his mouth and massage his with yours.
but remember, don't rush into anything too fast, wait for the right guy.
I hope I helped!
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okay something has really been bugging me lately. i always, always feel like i'm invisible. it's like this .. whenever i'm hanging with one of my friends and other people come along, i turn invisible. people leave me out of their conversations all the time. i feel like i'm just a substitute person or something; like, i feel that most people hang out with me until someone "better" comes along. and you wouldn't believe how many times people have said to me "omg i'm so sorry i forgot about you!" people i've met either forget my name or forget me altogether and when i say hi they're like "do i know you?" it seems to happen alot. and guys always ignore me, even though people say i'm pretty, and i know i'm really not unattractive. i really don't see what's going on, i'm nice to everyone and i would never do that to anyone, but it seems like the mean people who ditch other people have more people talking to them and everyone wants to hang around with them. and i have a lot of friends, but i wonder why it always seems to happen to me. maybe i'm just not agressive enough, who knows? but i really need help on this one, like advice on how to become more noticed and less invisible. thnx. (link)
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To make more friends and to become a more interesting person you should join a team. There are so many activities you could join, like basketball, volleyball, soccer, cheerleading, sutdent council, etc. This would help because joining a team would introduce you to people who have the same interests as you, which would give you something to talk about.
Another thing you could do is when you are in a conversation with a few people, instead of just letting them all talk, be aggressive and when a topic comes up that you like to talk about, get into it. Even if they are talking about something your not too fond of, you still will have alot to say about it, and you could slowly move the topic towards something you like.
For example, lets say you and about 4 friends are talking, and they are in a conversation about an author that you don't really like. Join in by saying something like, "Oh, you like that author/book?" and then to switch the topic to something you like, say something like, "Well, he/she isn't my favorite author, i actually like this author better."
Also, this might sound artificial, but playing up your appearance makes you seem more interesting. Try starting a new trend, trying new makeup colors, and maybe cut your hair differently. It's better to stand out than in.
Compliment people. When your walking down the hall, and you see someone wearing a hairstyle, clothing item, etc. that you like, tell them. Compliments always lead to conversation in the future.
I hope i helped!
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since i got out of school i've really only straightened my hair about 3 times. i used to straighten it almost every day in the school year, but i dont anymore. thing is, it still seems fried. its kinda frizy and seems dry. why is it still like, this, and what can i do about it? thanks xo (link)
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Hair is made up of dead keratin, so it can't heal itself. Your best bet is to slowly cut off the dead ends and start fresh. But in the mean time there are ways to make your hair appear to be "healthier".
Hot oil treatments- I personally don't recommend them for one reason. The oil molecule is simply too large to penetrate the hair shaft. All they do is leave a layer of oil on the outer hair shaft which does result in smoother hair but give it a day and you'll see what I mean. Instead, use a cream based, deep conditioner 2 times a week.
Get regular trims every 6-8 weeks to trim off the spilt ends
Cut back on blow drying
When blow-drying, force the air in he direction of your hair growth so you don't disturb the cuticle anymore then you have to.
Use gentle cleansing shampoos
Use daily conditioners and even better, use a leave-in conditioner as well
Rinse with cool water as your final rinse to close the cuticle and prevent further damage.
Keep use of heating products to a minimum if possible. And always use a styling product that specifically protects hair during heat process.
Scalp treatments can do wonders. Ask your Stylist if she offers this service. Not only does it stimulate hair growth and condition your hair, it feels great!
Use products that don't contain alcohol
Deep condition at least 2 times a week. Apply the conditioner to clean, damp hair. Put a shower cap on and hit it with the blow dryer. This will open up the cuticle and condition your hair better.
Avoid shampoos that are clear in color. These shampoos are refereed to as plain shampoos. Plain shampoos contain little to no moisturizer. Opt for a pearlized one that is made for dry, damaged hair. Shampoo is important but no as much as conditioner
I learned this information from http://styles101.homestead.com/dry.html
Good luck!
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does anybody have advice on how to get rid of undereye circles without using $100 products if u know what i mean? I already use concealer.i really need help i cant stand looking in the mirror and seeing a racoon looking back @ me LOL. (link)
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Instead of using a normal concealer, try using a yellow concealer like Physicians Formula Magic Cube Concealer in yellow. The yellow color hides dark colors like undereye circles, scars, bruises, etc, and it's only $5.95 and available at your local Walgreens or Jewel. After you apply it under your eyes,cover it with your normal concealer and then dab powder matching your skin color on it to make it stay on all day.
also, if you want to draw the attention away from the under eye area, just apply mascara and eyeliner to the top lashes and avoid the bottom. Avoid brown eyeliners and shadows as they enhance under eye circles. Using lighter colours can give the effect of brighter, more open eyes. Remember too that using a white eyeliner will open your eyes, whereas the darker shades can create a more smoky and sensual effect.
You can reduce the darkness in the short term by applying slices of cold cucumber or cooled down teabags to the area.
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Alright. So i think i might sort of have a problem. A while ago (this year though) I started kind of cutting myself, but i didnt think of it as cutting. I didnt actually use a knife so i didnt think it was cutting. I just scratched my self w/ something sort of sharp, until i started bleeding. I did it twice the first time, and then the next time three smaller ones, and then the third time one small & one normal one. But their on my arm where a cutter would cut. And i think people think i'm trying to look like i cut, so i havent yet, and even though i'm not planning on doing it again, if i do i'm just gonna do it on my ankles.. But is that really considering cutting anyways? i mean its not like w/ a knife. When i told one of my like good guy friends about it i was bawling, i felt like a disappointment to him (hes sort of like a brother) and i didnt know what to do, i felt like it was a mistake to tell him But he said its better then lying to him. now we like barly talk & our relationship has started to become distant, but i dont know if its all for that reason. i feel stupid for doing it & i feel like the few people that know, judge me because of it. it really is stupid and i know it, and i really dont even know why i do it. Its not like i do it b/c i cant control my anger, but it does help, like instead of freaking out its easier for me to just do this, and then as i do it i think about what happens. But now i have scars, and seriously i'm embarrassed by them. A few people can tell that i cut myself, other people like my sister fool around & like joke & say that it looks like i did, but i just say that i like fell into a fence, and stupid stuff like that. PLEASE HELP ME. i seriously dont know what to do. (link)
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I understand your pain, because I had a friend that used to cut, and yes what you are doing is cutting. To hide your scars I suggest using Physicians Formula Magic Cube Concealer in Yellow, because the color yellow hides things such as scars, bruises, birth marks, etc. You can buy this at your local Walgreens or Jewel.
If you want to know more about cutting and self-harm, go to this website: http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/mental_health/cutting.html
For tips on how to resist the urge to cut, go to this website:
http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/problems/resisting_cutting.html
I wish you the best of luck.
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