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How can I be noticed.
I have a lot of guy friends...but they are all FRIENDS.
I want them to notice me more as someone they could go out with...rather than a good friend.
I'm not tomboyish or anything...I'm not a bimbo..not a whore..slut.. or anything like that.
I'm just normal..I look like a girl...act like one that's it.
So any tips would be much appreciated.
15/F
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Not telling you to be a whore, but... dress provocatively and they will be reminded your not JUST a friend... ;]
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Getting them all to notice you more as someone they could go out with might require you to make some big changes with the way you act and what you say. I think that the best way for you to become closer to your friends is just be there for them. I don't know if all your guy friends hang out as a group or if they are all scattered. In any event, when you talk to a guy on a one-on-one, just try to be more of a friend. What I mean by that is get to know him more, what he really likes and dislikes, his thoughts on different people and things, any problems he is having, etc. I'm sure you already do that to some extent.
When you keep up with a guy's problems and ask them about it later, it shows that you care for them as a really good friend. Since you are looking for more than that, make things mutual with a few of your guy friends by letting them know more about you and what you think about things, your problems, etc. If you can gradually get closer even just as friends to a some of your guy friends, then sooner rather than later they will probably consider you someone they could go out with. And don't be afraid of getting close to anyone...some might make it more difficult than others but be sure to give everyone a fair chance. Hope that helped and good luck.
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Well the fact that guys want to be your friend shows that there is something right! about you. Guys like someone they can talk to. The next time you are around the guy you like try showing him you think of him as more than a friend by touching his arm or holding his gaze longer than neccessary. DONT change who you are to get guys to notice you.
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i got this info from a website and it really helped me:
Your body language:
First and most importantly, you need to work on your body language. Teenager guys, and in fact men of all ages, are most attracted to strong and confident looking girls. So try to keep your back straight, stand tall and look straight ahead. This is the stance of the strong and confident people and it really makes you stand out in a crowd. Once you approach the teenage guy you wish to speak to, you should try to mirror his position. So for example, if he is sitting down you should sit down, if he is standing up then do the same. If he is crossing his arms or has his hands in his pockets, try to do the same. Obviously you don't want him to notice that you are imitating him, but having a sort of symmetry between you and this teen boy will make him more open to your suggestions and make you appear to be more like him. This will give you the open door to let you continue on with some good conversation. Be sure to keep eye contact with him too.
Your conversation:
Of course once you've got the guy interested in you by the way you respond to his body language you will want to follow up with some intelligent and fulfilling conversation. It would be wise to do some research about topics that would interest this particular teenage guy that you are trying to attract, but if that's not possible then you can simply go with one of the tried and true subjects: the weather, the location that you're both in right now, school, television, the news and so on. Don't be afraid to make your opinions known, guys love a woman who is strong willed and opinionated, who can think on their own. But try not to force your ideas onto him or to forcefully disagree with him because it will make him doubt your similarities and push you away.
The way you look:
Every girl knows that teenage boys are attracted to pretty girls. But even if you don't believe that you're a pretty girl you can still do things to improve the way you look, which will in turn make you feel great and make your body language even more power and positive. This works like a cycle and it gives you even more momentum in attracting that cute teen guy. So what can you do to look good in the eyes of teenage guys? First of all you will want to get some clothes that flatter your body shape and in colors that accentuate your eyes. The eyes are often said to be the windows to your soul, and adding a bit of mascara or eye make up can really light up your eyes. Don't spend too much time stressing over your clothes or hair, but just try your best to look presentable.
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