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he asked me out....i don't like him
16/f
This 15 year old guy asked me out (5 month difference in age) But I don't like him so much. I used to..when he was better looking and not so much of a jerk..as he is now. He assumed that I said yes. I didn't say yes. (He thinks I like him so much)
Well, I want to tell him no..Like in school. Or even online. But I don't know how to. I've never had a boyfriend before, and I don't want this one to be my first.
(Also because he told me we were going to engage in sexual acts. He told me that we would progress as a couple...I don't want that. It's disgusting)
How do I turn him down? =\
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The guy is a jerk, so why worry about telling him the answer is NO?
Are you worried about hurting his feelings or something? Don't be. At all.
Just say NO-SORRY-NOT INTERESTED-FORGET IT.
ygs-29/f
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well just be like hey online b/c it might be esier then be like yeah i like you. Then just be like ive always liked you but as a friend and only as a friend. Nothing more or less. and hopefully it would help him get a little less personal. Then little by little stop hangging out with him if you really dont like him that much. Sooner or later hell stop pushing it.
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This guy sounds like a freak. Tell him straight up your not feeling it anymore and you want to be friends. online is easy, and in person can be hard but if you get out all your coldheartedness it's easy. good luck!
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since you have no feelings for him,it'll be a lot easier to turn him down. tell him straight, that you think he's coming on too strong and only want to be friends. this could be a good wake up call for him, so i'd deffinatly turn him down before everyone thinks you two are official.
i hope i helped somewhat :].
good luck hun,
xkisakissx.
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say to him: "look, i don't want to hurt your feelings, but i don't want to be in a relationship with you." or "i don't want to be in a relationship right now." or even "i don't think of you that way." you could even bring your parents into it and say that they don't allow you to date. (you could ask your parents to forbid you from dating him. parents are handy that way.)
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