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So my name's nicole & I'm 16 years old. I love music and I love to write. I find them both great ways to express yourself. I consider myself pretty good at giving advice, my friends tend to think so too. So send your questions my way and I'll be sure to answer them the best that I can! Oh, and one more thing, remember to always be yourself. Just you, and no one else. That's the biggest advice you could ever get. Take it to heart. Peace

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ok well i am at a loss
so i have liked a guy for over 2 years
i was told he doesnt like me so it is just a matter of getting over him...which i havin trouble doing...but then there is this other guy...i have liked him before like on and off for well we are kinda talking again...i want to talk to him more but he seems like a big flirt and player...i just dont want to really fall for him because i dont want to have to deal with it if he decideds he doesnt like me...i have the problem with the guy i cant get over who i have liked for over 2 years and i really dont want another one of those...o ya and the guy i talking to is playing hard to get...what should i do??

First off, you need to get over this 2-year guy. I know how hard it is to get over someone, but surround yourself with friends and try not to think about him as much. For example, if there are certain things or songs or anything that make you think of him, try avoiding them. It'll help. And if you concentrate on this other guy, that will help too. Get to know him a little more, maybe you'll realize he's more than what seems to be a huge flirt. But don't start liking this guy for a rebound crush/liking him/whatever. Try not to fall to fast if you find out you do like him. Getting too emotionally attached is what can cause alot of pain if it turns out he doesn't like you. But yeah I think you should definitely give this flirt a shot. Hearts get broken, but hold your head high and go on with life.

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im not shy at all and i have no problem talking to people. now that i started high school i want to branch out and make a lot of friends. i talk to alot of new people but i dontknow how to take the talking to the next level and like start hanging out with them. i still am kinda intimidated because the girls i want to be friends with are kinda popular and i dont want to feel like an idiot asking to go somewhere. i cant have a party or people over cause my house is weird and doesnt have a place for people to hang out. i really really want new friends, i just need some help

If you feel comfortable asking them to hang out, go for it. It doesn't have to be at your house, nor does it have to be at a party. Bring up a movie you want to see during a conversation and ask if anyone wants to go see it. Or maybe you can all meet up at the mall. Don't feel like an idiot either. Everyone hangs out with people, even these "kinda popular" girls and if you consider them your friends and you talk to them all the time, I'm sure they'll think it's a great idea to start hanging out. Hope that helps!

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