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dont want to fall for another guy
ok well i am at a loss
so i have liked a guy for over 2 years
i was told he doesnt like me so it is just a matter of getting over him...which i havin trouble doing...but then there is this other guy...i have liked him before like on and off for well we are kinda talking again...i want to talk to him more but he seems like a big flirt and player...i just dont want to really fall for him because i dont want to have to deal with it if he decideds he doesnt like me...i have the problem with the guy i cant get over who i have liked for over 2 years and i really dont want another one of those...o ya and the guy i talking to is playing hard to get...what should i do??
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First off, you need to get over this 2-year guy. I know how hard it is to get over someone, but surround yourself with friends and try not to think about him as much. For example, if there are certain things or songs or anything that make you think of him, try avoiding them. It'll help. And if you concentrate on this other guy, that will help too. Get to know him a little more, maybe you'll realize he's more than what seems to be a huge flirt. But don't start liking this guy for a rebound crush/liking him/whatever. Try not to fall to fast if you find out you do like him. Getting too emotionally attached is what can cause alot of pain if it turns out he doesn't like you. But yeah I think you should definitely give this flirt a shot. Hearts get broken, but hold your head high and go on with life.
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i say that if you take your mind off the first kid, the one you have liked for over 2 years, and you start to like this new kid, then you will get over him. The on and off again kid seems nice and if you think you like him then you should just talk to him and get to knwo him more and stuff and maybe he will fall for you. You never know..but all this is just experiences that everyone will go through so it is ok. Just be yourself and show the guy who you really are. And that one that you have liked for over 2 years, that is a long time and it is probally time in which you just need a little more time to forget about him. Just move on and don't worry bout the risks of liking a guy. Your heart will get broken one of this times...so get used to it. This is what happens..it is jsut natural for people to go and cry if they get dumped or if you get regected..but it happens all the time so jsut get out htere and go for it..as long as you don't rush things, everything will work out like magic..good luck and i hope i helped you make up your mind.
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