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Does he still care for me?
My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year and 3 months. He is 18 and I am 16. We used to be the happiest couple around. We argued like every couple but we didn't do it all the time. I started talking to another guy but all i wanted was a friend, this other guy wanted more and i knew but i never told my boyfriend. Things got bad for a while but we decided to put the past behind us and start fresh. We were at a friends house and i was talking to him about fixing our relationship when he cut me off cause there were boobs on tv. And he is always talking to me like i dont matter anymore. What is really the problem?
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In this type of situation, I'd say he is just being rude. But, Voiceofreason has a point. There is a possibility he's losing emotional attachment, thus, not caring how you feel. You should talk to him. Sit him down and seriously discuss this. Ask him how he feels about the relationship. Assure him you'll be calm and want to know the truth, no sugar coating. It's important to know whether he is happy in the relationship or not. Because misery loves company, and if he's miserable, he's most likely going to bring you down with him whether he realizes it or not. Communication is definitely key. We can only advise you, but we don't have the definite answer. Good luck, and I hope everything works out for you.
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There is a saying that the person who has the least emotional investment in a relationship has all the power. I think this is true.
It sounds to me like he is telling you he is about to check out. Having decided to put one foot out the door, he can now push you anyway he wants and if you decide to cash things in he would be okay with it. He is just waiting until he can hook some new poon and then he'll hand you your walking papers. This is called "passive aggressive behavior."
Of course, the more he treats you like crap the more you love it, right? Because he is making you fight harder for his attention now. Now if you have any dignity left, you will throw in the towel and seek a new guy. But you won't until he hits the eject button on you. Just don't say you weren't warned.
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hi,
well i think that his scared and he feels like if you talk about then you guys might break up and his afriad of loosing you... so his prentedning that everything is okay... you should bee alone with him when you talk because then he cant escape.
hope this helps.
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