Member Since: April 4, 2011
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Last Update: April 4, 2011
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I'm constantly suprised that I actually look good.. like in all honesty. But then I seem to forget and feel self conscious and like I'm ugly or something.. fu390urqprfpcaspfka. i guess i have low self esteem now but idk. What can I do about it? It's even been hard for me to accept compliments sometimes. I don't want to be cocky, and I really don't like cocky people. I see beautiful traits in all people, but idk.. I guess I think a lot of negative thoughts like people are thinking about me in a negative way and ugh. (link)
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I think feeling good in your own skin comes with time and life experiences..Most everyone I think feels that way sometime or the other. I would say find something that makes you feel beautiful inside, that empowers you from inside out. Become aware of your negative thoughts and replace them with positive ones. Remember you have control over your thoughts, they let them run all over the place and mistaken them for reality...When you let your negative thoughts and emotions run you, you experience and manifest exactly that in the world...Love yourself and others and you will get exactly that back...
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What is the most painless way to commit suicide (link)
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May I ask why you want to commit suicide?
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I know that have wrothe about this before but iam still having the issuse. I've had a hard life and it started when I was about the age of 3 I would have been 4 a week later when I was molested by my father and iam 22 now and Iam still having flashbacks and nightmares. I don't remember all of what happend by mom has been telling me about what happenned ever since I turned 7 years old. I don't think my mom should have told me about something like when I was so young and today I blame my mom for my depression and now a few weeks ago I started thinking about suicide. I just feel like it's better for the whole world if I was dead or better yet to never have been born. Ever since I turned the age of 18 I started acting wild and out of control I have had sex with 5 guys and 2 girls since the aga of 18 and iam now only 22 years old. I've also been drinking and smoking weed. One of the guys i've had sex with was when I was drunk and I don't even remember it I found out when he was spreading it around the school and the other kids was calling me a drunk whore and talking about me behind my back. I feel as if I was raped since I was drunk is it to late to report it and plus Iam mentally challenged(mr) How do I get over my depression? (link)
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Hey Hon,
Look at it, as a test, make the decision mentally to be the empowered one and not the helpless victim. God has given you this challenge, say I choose to be a empowered, inspiring young lady and not a prisoner of my past..Remember you make your own decisions, you are not a victim...yes you were when you were young, but don't let that to become your identity and be an excus for your entire life. You matter, value yourself, respect yourself, start making healthy decisions. Your past doesnot define you or your future..Choose to live life like a winner...Do not get caught in ruminating, or your emotions...and feeling sorry for yourself...they come and go..what is real is the now...what you have right now...and by not being grateful for being here you let this vicious cycle to kill your soul and your wonderful future. Also, express your anger...express it...say what you want to say to the people in your life no matter how negative, responsibly. Find God, strengthen your belief in him...God loves you no matter what has been done to you and what you have done...remember that.
Also, find something that makes you happy, a passion, love something or someone, most importantly love yourself, find something creative to do, or athletic...dance, running, boxing..drawing...as soon as you feel the emotions come up or the backflashes, choose to do something that empowers you taking a walk, taking a yoga class, reading books, join a group, eat good food and enjoy this beautiful world with all its ups and downs. We are here for a reason..We all have lessons to learn...You are responsible for your life! "I AM NOT A VICTIM"
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