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She is talking to my boyfriend
okay so I am in a stong long distance relationship and have been for avlbout a year now. I love him and I would like to say that I trust him. But yesterday at one AM of all times a girl from his past texted him " cashually " asking what he was doing so he answered saying the usual nm how r u. Now she has responded.... I am ... Annoyed aggravated.... Angry. I mean its not like I can exactly tell him who he can and can't talk to. Help!!!
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You have every right to be upset, he is not making this situation easy for you and he should not be CASUALLY talking to another girl and the fact that he said the usual means that they have already been talking for a while.
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It's normal to get annoyed by it. I would be too. I'm in a long distance relationship too and if one of my bfs exes started talking to him, I'd want to punch the girl.
But you need to trust your boyfriend. He's with you, so he wants to be with you. Don't let her get into your mind to where that's all you think about.
He can talk to whoever he wants and you already know that, so just try to trust your boyfriend and not think about it too much.
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It's a natural things for girls to feel a little jealously, especially when an ex tries talking to your man again. But listen, if you really trust your boyfriend like you say you do, let it go. He is allowed to talk to anyone that he wants, as do you. He has an innocent conversation with her and I don't think there were any intentions. If this girl keeps texting him and talking to him, let him know how you feel. Explain to him that you don't like it and just be honest. It's important to tell him how you feel or else you'll end up feeling bad about the situation. I'm sure your boyfriend respects and loves you enough to not talk to her if it really bothers you.
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