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boy issues
A girl that doesn't really like me told my best friend that my boyfriend tried to get with her. My best friend of course told me, and I talked to my boyfriend about it. He said that yes he was being friendly with her, but he never did anything with her at all (random note she is not attractive and doesn't seem like his type at all. Nor is she easy). He even showed me a text with her telling her that we are on break (which we were but we still talked and were exclusive) but things between us were getting better (which they were). Weird thing to tell someone you want to get with, right? Anyways, I decided to stay with him just because I believed him, but I made sure to keep my guard up. My best friend was absolutely not okay with this, and pretty much made me choose between me and him. I told her that I want to keep my love life to myself, and our friendship, even though it was rocky before this had occurred, got even worse. Since then everything between my man and I have be been going pretty smoothly, and then bam, I see he commented on a girls photo telling her its sexy. It was on facebook for the whole world to see. I snapped and broke up with him. Now I'm not sure if it was worth throwing 15 months away over. The reason I snapped is because of what happened five months ago, which I still don't know really happened. I don't know what to do. He's been denying doing anything wrong that involves infidelity, and he doesn't seem very remorseful about the facebook girl because she's from a different country, but still it bothers me. What do I do?! (we're all in college btw). And I'm willing to dump my best friend because she hasn't always been a good friend to me
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well the facebook comment, i know it's upsetting when a guy says things like that but it's just in their nature and it's over facebook so i don't think you have anything to worry about they tend to do that remember it's just a comment but be sure to tell him that you aren't okay with this and if he isn't tring to get back with you after you broke up then know that he doesn't regret it and probably doesn't want to be with you so you should actually wait for him as for your friend it's really wrong of her to ask you to choose because i'm sure both of them are pretty special to you so tell her that she just has to deal with or you know that that she doesn't want you to be happy and your friendship means nothing to her but i think that you should get back with your boyfriend but also remember that you can't be in this relationship if you don't trust him
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