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my bestfriend is starting to like my crush!!!!
my bestfriend lets call her kate she's like so kool.but i don't think i trust her because she's starting to talk to my crush alot and flirting with him and not even knowing she's flirting! and i've talked to her about it and she says that she'll try to back off but she hasn't i told her she could talk to him but just not flirt with him and she's done this to me before and i've dealt with it. she's told me she's liked the same guy i like after i tell her i like him!!!!! it kind of gets mad...no it really gets me mad!! and she acts like good bestfriend and all, but in this case i hate her!!!! pease help me out with this problem....
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If you've tried to get to her and tell her that you don't like her flirting with your crush, then it's time for some competition. Put things into action, flirt with him to, talk to him alot, get his aim, and then ask him out. Do whatever it takes to get him, if you really care about and like this guy, you'll get him.
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Don't hate her. She's not in love with your boyfriend or anything, so neither one of you has claim on him. If its just because you said you liked him she started liking him just to piss you off, then you need to talk to her. She might have liked him before you. you dont have much of a right to tell her who to flirt with if you two arent together. if she doesnt no shes flirting you cant blame her either. You need to talk to her, if you dont you would have no reason to be mad
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ok.. wow .. i know EXACTLY what your going through. well, basically just whenever this girl goes up to your crush and tries to talk to him, go with her and stand there while she talks to him and then that way you can make sure she doesnt flirt with him. and if they tell you to go away, say "no i dont have to. girl, you dont own him or me and cant make me do anything i dont wanna do!" and if he tells you to go away, just be like "too bad boy! you dont own me! and i can do whatever i want!".. i hope this helped!
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Well, since hes not your boyfriend, hes not really your 'property.' yano? shes like entiled to him just as much as you are. You have to understand that, no matter what. Now, shes not being the best of friends, if shes like all over your guy. I hate when girls do that, when I like guys. But, what I do, is flirt with him too.. & like okay, I don't like acting like a slut, but I get like all over them. Like touching them [no not in inapproaite places, like there arms & stuff] & you just gotta hope.. he likes you better. & then if she gets mad.. you just say, "he isn't your property" & if you don't get him.. then it wasn't meant to be. Try talking to her though, say its really hurting your feelings. & stuff like that.
I hope that helped, kbyee =)
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You should really tell her how you feel. She`s suposse to be your best friend and she should understand. If she doesn`t stop then don`t be friends with her anymore because she`s not being a good friend.. Hope things work out. ♥
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