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ok this is complicated.....
So there's this guy i like and he is my neighbor. i am 13/f and he is 14/m. i am best friends with his little sister and she says he really likes me and want to ask me out. he TOLD me he liked me after he broke up with my best friend Sarah* and i told him that i liked him too but we could go out bc it might hurt sarahs feelings. its not about the likeing part i KNOW he does, he always flirts and comes over and stuff so thats not a problem. SO.... all my friends met him when he and sarah were going out and they all think he is a stalker frieak and i HAVE to agree with them bc i CANNOT let anyone know i like him scretly... please help! what should i do???
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Your friends are probably saying this to make Sarah feel better. If you sense that Sarah isn't completely over him, then don't go out with him just yet. But if she is totally and completely over him, go for it. It's hard when other people are being mean about the guy you like, trust me, but it helps if you just laugh it off or come up with a really good comeback. I hope that helps, and good luck!
Alice
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I am a 13/f, and I have had secret crushes before. I think you should just follow your heart, go out with the guy, what do you have to lose, if your friends don't accept how you feel about this guy, maybe the people you call your friends, aren't really your friends. It shouldn't matter to your friends who you date, it's your crush, not theirs! And when your friends say that he is a stalker freak, maybe you should speak up and say how you feel, they aren't good friends if they can't accept that!
Your advice columnist, (LeeAnna),
Hope you follow your heart!!!!
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Go with your heart, talk to your friend first though i don't think she would have a problem with you going with him because well she does not like him if everyone is calling him a stalker freak, but if you like him go for it. you see something in him that they don't, they will just have to accept your decision. but make sure you talk to your friend first.
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this is a hard question but have you heard the saying boys come and go but friends stay forever?well stick to that saying.sorry to tell you this but your going to have to drop the situation and stay with your friends.you'll end up gaining more than losing.
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Check your window at night a for a few weeks. if you see him staring right back at you, he might be a stalker freak.
Here's the thing: If you feel like you know the guy well, and you know he isn't a stalker freak, date him for a little while (That's not a relationship). Go out on a few dates, and see how it works, etc. If friends give you a hard time, tell them to shove it where it hurts. If it doesn't go well, tell him you had a nice time on the dates but you don't want a relationship with him.
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there your friend there suposed to be behind you no matter what you do just tell them to get over it it may not be that simple but come on, unless ud just date him and then after a week u tell em then they have no choise but to either ditch you or keep hanging with you but when you get in a relationship you must know that people always tend to leave there friends trust me dont do that cause when you break up who will you have and about this sarah thing give it some time then do something.
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Awe! That`s cute! Well so what if your friends say bad things about him like he`s a "stalker freak" , I`m pretty sure he`s not. Probably the only reason they say that is beccause their mad that he broke up with Sarah. & If you really love him , which I think you do then you shouldn`t care about your friends oppinions! I also think you should go out with him because so what if he went out with your BestFriend Sarah , their over anyway , and just because you`re bestfriend went out with him , that so dosen`t make it a rule that you can`t go out with him , yeah i`m sure she will be kind of pee`d off when she hears you guys are going out , but she`ll get over it in a week or so! You and that guy really should go out , because what if he moves on sooner or later , and the opportunity of you 2 going out is gone , so call him to hang out & then ask him out! I hope It all works out! Good Luck! ♥ :]
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maybe you should just calmly explain to your friends that youve really gotten to know him and hes not really a stalker freak and hes not that bad of a guy and hes actually pretty cool...see what their reaction would be to that, and then maybe you could be like, you know i actually kind of like him, like alot...we were maybe thinking of going out..idk how sarah would feel about that though, so maybe its not such a good idea.......or ya idk you can message me back and maybe you know how they would react better to that first part..
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if you rele like him you should tell your friends but i would say friends r forever but boys only last a while
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i think you should give it time and wait until he asks you out. for now, keep on liking him and keep it private. <3
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