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How do I give him a sign?
im 13/f
Well, to make a long story short..
There's this boy I've been crushing on for about a month now. I'm going to spend a week with him at his house for vacation with a whole bunch of people and i just want to know how do i let him know i like him? i really wanna go out with him but the thing is i've never really had a REAL boyfriend. and i haven't hooked up yet & i'm pretty sure he has. and if he asks if i've hu before do i say yes and lie so he'll hook up with me and think i'm experienced? or do i say the truth and say yes and see whatever happens from there? I really need to let him know how i feel but i don't wanna make it obvious, i wanna keep him guessing. he's 15. what are some ways i can play hard to get and flirt with him? PLEASE HELP! xox
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First off, i have no clue what hu means AIM ME WHAT IT MEANS: ohflipitsgracie is my SN. or email me: oflipitsgracie@aol.com is my email
Second, never lie, because then he will figure out, people will eventually firgure out that you lied, always. Just be yourself! He will like you if you are youself and dont act weird. Also, if he's 15, sorry to tell you, but he would want to date 15 yr olds. AIM ME OR EMAIL ME ANYTIME WITH WHAT "HU" MEANS PLEASE IM DYING!!!
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Ok, Here we go, if you like him, and if you want to know if he likes you, too, then you need to tell him how you feel and ask him if he feels the same, and if he says no, then you guys should still be friends! If you like someone, you don't need to play hard to get, you shouldn't act like something you're not just for a guy to like you. And that brings me to when you asked my if you should lie or not. NO, you should defenetly not lie! Lying gets you NOWHERE in life, if he doesn't like you for who you are, then you don't need him! Think about this, what if you did say you have hooked up with people, he would ask you how it was, and you would lie again, and eventually if you two did go out, your relationship would just be a HUGE puddle of lie's! And you guys would most likely break up because you can't pretend for ever, beleive me, I KNOW! No guy is worth being something you're not! So be your self, tell him how you feel, and go from there, if he likes you GREAT, but if he doesn't, oh well! Don't lie to him, and be yourself and nothing more!
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What you should do is tell him the truth because he'll then find out that you're not experienced like when he kisses you or if you decide to have relations with him so it's best to be honest about that,there are some guys that like a girl that's not experienced for a couple of reasons like they want to be the first in their lives,and the other may be that because they're not experienced either.Some ways to play hard to get is like if he wants to kiss you what you would do is back up,say it's too fast,another way is like he wants to play with you say you don't play with people until you get to know them very well,and see something special in them.As far as guys they flirt,ask the girl lots of questions about their lives,and stare at her a lot.
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Awe! Well first off you should tell him the truth that you`ve never really had a real boyfriend , because why should you lie , & if you haven`t hooked up yet that isn`t a bad thing so just tell him the truth! =] & some flirting things to do could be like - well say really sweet things to him , like if you are talking to him look him in the eyes and then be like oh my god , you have the prettiest eyes! that`s flirting Lol. Or you could just talking to him and then move a little closer to him and then be like , wow your amazing or something like that , & you should tell him you like him a couple days before you leave to go back home , because it`s always easier to tell some one how you feel when you are leaving , because if they don`t like you back you don`t have to deal wiht them that much , but I think he probably likes you! Just flirt with him alot & then if it seems like he likes you , tell him how you feel! Good Luck! I hope everything works out! & have fun! ♥ =]
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Flirt Flirt Flirt.
When you can, steal him for a sec. for a little bit of alone time. If you guys are in a crowd, smile at him from across the room. Hug him goodbye, or goodmorning when you see him. Giggle at his jokes, and make him feel good. Talk to him about himself, and listen well.
Don't lie to him though, that could get you in a big mess, trust me. If he brings it up just smile at him and say something like "wouldn't you like to know" =] :]
Also, if you guys are by a beach, or anywhere senic. Ask him to go with you, and watch the sunset. Then when the sun sets, lean in and kiss him. Smile at him, get up and walk away. He'll be left in awe of your straightforward ness. Just stay confident and have fun! :] :]
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