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whats wrong?
me and my gf broke up like 3 weeks ago but we still hang out sometimes. we were watching a movie and when it was over we started makin out and so i stopped real quick and was like, "we're still friends, okay?" and she didnt say anything so i kept kissin her but she wasnt kissing me back and she started crying so i kinda just left. we've talked since then but why was she crying??? did i do the right thing??? what should i have done if i didnt??? what do i do now???
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Ok, maybe she loves you, and she wants to be with you, girls are REALLY emotional, and we don't like it when guys "play" us, it really makes us mad, sad, or even doubtful, like no one wants us. When you kissed her, she felt sad, like you were using her, so it kinda sounds like you are a player, which I hate players, so listen up, either, get your girlfriend back, or don't, but if you just want to be friends with her, then make it only that, NO KISSING, OR MESSING AROUND! Friends don't make friends sad, if you're gonna kiss her, then go out with her!!!!!
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she probably thought she had a chance again with you and then when you asked are we still friends just crushed it... i say if you still like her then ask her out again but if you don't then don't go making out with her making her think that she has a chance... or if you still wanna do stuff with her then ask her about maybe being friends with benefits...
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hey,she was probuly upset because you said were still friends right?
by making out with her might have made her thought there was a chance for both of you to go back out agian.
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She's probably still upset over the two of you breaking up and by making out with her, you set yourselves back in getting over each other. You're sending her mixed signals and it's going to make her hurt more. So stop it. And you shouldn't have left her there crying, she probably wanted an explanation or something.
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i think its really obvious that she still likes you.
its probably really hard on her that you guys still hang out all the time even though you are broken up, and she probably is hoping that you guys will get back together.
so when you started making out with her, she was thinking that you liked her again but then you were like "but were just friends" and she got all upset cuz she realized that you just want to get on her and not actually be in a relationship with her.
if you guys hang out all the time, and get on each other still, i dont see what the point of not being in a relationship is really. i meant thats what a girlfriend is - someone you like to hang out with and like to get on.
so if thats what she is to you, why arent you guys together?
if its because you want to get on other girls also, then shes gonna feel really used and you might ruin your guyses relationship and friendship. decide if shes worth it. if you really like her, then you should be perfectly fine getting on only her and not other girls too.
but if shes not worth it to youand you really dont like her that much, then you guys need to stop getting on eachother and just call it quits cuz its probably torture for her.
i hope it works out for you!!
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oh boy. you probably shouldnt have made out with her. if you broke up with her then its most likely shes still got feelings for you. if she broke up with you then idk whats goin on, but if she says shes fine with the fact that you two are just friends and that shes gonna be okay.. dont listen to her. if she started crying when you said that you guys were just friends that means she still cares alot about you. and dont go making out with her anymore unless shes up for it. it might make her think you still like her as much as she does you and it will just hurt her more and more inside
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-__- you don't go making out with a girl, if you dont like her anymore. She was obviously really hurt. She probaly thought you still liked her. She probaly still likes you. & then in the middle of it, you dont go, "we're still friends,okay?" i mean really, lets just crush her right in the middle of it =P. Do you still like her? If you do.. get her back, i think its pretty obvious she still likes you. If you dont, then apologize for making out with you, & maybe giving her the wrong impression. hope i helped! kbye
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Well she probably still has stronger feelings for you. You saying your still friends just reminded her...picked the wrong time to say that for sure!
You probably did right by leaving. Sounds like she is still hurting from the break up and you don't want to make it worse.
Just keep it friendly. no kissing or anything. :)
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