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what should i do
Ok here goes im 17 theres this guy that i dated awhile ago and i cant seem to get over him and we always end up goin back to each other to mess around n stuff but i want more than that and i finally told him how i felt and he said that he wanted to be single for the rest of the summer because he has a bet with his dad which he does because i talked to his father... (im really close wit his fam) and he said that we will decided what we are gonna do when school starts again but im sick of waiting im scared that hes not gonna wanna get back with me... he says he does but i dont believe him... ive waited around soo long and i dont kno what to to help
17/f
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If he wanted to be with you then he would be with you. People do what they want to do, so if you aren't together it isn't because of any bullshit bet, it's because he just doesn't want to.
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I can tell that you like this guy but sweety face it, if he wanted to be with you and actually be with you it wouldn't hold off for a bet. Sure you still mess around but that is nothing more than a booty call for the both of you. You should just call him and tell him how you feel about him and that you want to be with him. As much as he says yes you'll be back together why would he hold off. When you tell him how you feel let him know that you can't just sit bac and wait around for something your not sure will happen. if he wants to be with you he'll understand and you'll be together. If he try's to aviod it or says let's just wait what are the odds you'll actually get back together.
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wow thats a tough one
i mean obviously you like this guy if youve dated before and even after the breakup youve still continued to mess around with him and want to get back in a relationship with, but you really need to think about if he is worth your time.
what i think you should do is give him one chance, approach him and tell him that if he really likes you that it should mean more than some stupid bet with his dad and that this bet could cost your guyses entire relationship, and if he really wants to blow it like that.
tell him there are lots of other guys that you could be with and getting with, but youve chosen him and that should mean something to him, and if he says that he doesnt feel the same way or that being single is more important to him than a relationship with you then i think you should move on.
you dont want to be with a guy that just tries to control you like that, trust me this almost exact same thing has happened to me before (im also 17) i waited around for a guy and once we got back together we ended up breaking up soon after
its gonna be hard but i think you should talk to him about it and if he chooses to be with you, great! but if he says no he wants to stay single than just forget about it and stop hooking up with him or calling him all the time or whatever, or else you will never get over him.
i really hope that helps good luck!!!
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well you did the right thing by tellin him how you feel. but if you want to be with him so bad, then you should wait til he's ready, but also you dont want to waste your time waiting around. so you really got to think if he is worth tht and if he is tellin the truth. you can prob find someone else tht is better and wouldnt waste your time. but i dont want to be rude and tell you tht so you have to go with the heart, and like isaid if you still care bout him soo much, wait for him.
hope i helped and good luck
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