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he says he loves me but how do i know if he means it
i've known my boyfriend since i was in eigth grade, im about to go to 11th anyways i've always known him as the guy to have girls all over him, and ive always known him as the guy to be allover other girls, he says he loves me and i believe he does he is a good guy but ibeen hurt so many times before how do i know if he says what he means
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he doesnt mean it...he tells all the other girls that to
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The truth is, you really never know if he means what he says, but the thing is, if you love him, you have to trust what he says, and I don't see anywhere where it says he cheated on you or lied to you, so there is really no reason not to trust him. I believe he does love you though, because if you have been with the same guy since 8th grade, he must love you. You know how guys are, they like girls, obviously! Would you rather him be a loser, and no one like him, I think you should trust your boyfriend. Really, he trusts you, so return the favor!
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I think you should casualy ask your boyfriend if he would ever lie to you in anyway. You could try to ask him that whenever he lies if he does anything e.g twitching, scrathing.
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you can't really tell if a guy really loves you, he's gotta prove it. he shouldn't be doing anything intentional to hurt you and he should be caring about you. if you're unsure of this, try to have a talk with him. he'll understand that you've been hurt before and you just don't want to be hurt again. i've felt that way, and it's a hard feeling to bear. don't worry, it might just be insecurity. give it some time. talk it out with your boyfriend. best of wishes to the two of you! (:
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There is no actual way to tell if he truely loves you but think about this...
How long has he been with you? - If it has been a long time chances are he really does love you
Have you kissed? - Did it feel right?
Does he flirt with other girls? - if he does but not a lot he does love you. He knows that even though he may mess up you will still love him.
I hope everything works out
~morgan Britt
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