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Well, I gave my boyfriends head. I told my friends. They got mad at me and they told thier moms. Now the whole school knows. All the moms and students hate me!!! Im soo imbaressed what should I do!!!13/f
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Well if your so called "friends" told their moms you should find better friends.. and next time you do something like that, don't share it with the whole world. It's all said and done I don't really think there's anything you can do about it now. You did it so take the consequences and tough it out. It won't last forever.
♥ Evy
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like it says dont tell anyone thats between you and yourself
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The way I see it, you made three mistakes:
(1) You sucked on a boy's penis when you were only 13 years old.
(2) You bragged about it.
(3) You chose untrustworthy friends.
Now, unfortunately, you must deal with the consequences. This is one of the reasons why it's a bad idea for young kids to engage in sexual activity; even if YOU think that you're emotionally mature enough to handle it, odds are that your friends, peers, and sex partners are not.
The reality is that you may never shake this reputation until high school is over. But you can do some damage control, and it's all related to the errors you made in the first place:
(1) Don't suck any more penises until after your 18th birthday.
(2) Don't talk about the time you did, or respond to questions about it.
(3) See if you can find out if ANY of the friends you had showed discretion. It's possible that not all of them blabbed; two or three is enough to spread a story pretty quickly. And confront them one at a time so they aren't influenced by peer pressure. Then, hang around with those friends and try to ditch the others.
No question about it, you've got a hard road ahead. Good luck to you, and try to wait a little longer before you experiment with sex again.
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Well, MOST importantly that is YOUR buisness and not the whole school's buisness. So really that is so ridiculous for your supposively FRIENDS to go an tell their mothers about YOUR buisness. And I dont see how parents and student's can hate you. I mean it wasn't anyone/nobody's decision but YOURS. But I guess in your case it's just a lesson learned not to tell anyone anything personal like that because their are ALOT of drama queens in this world, an drama queens like that just come to show you that you cant trust anyone!
-Stephanie
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Well 13 is pretty young to be doing any of that really. but for the girls to tell there mom is pretty weird. Why would they do that. I dont relly understand why they would hate you. i mean maybe not understand why you did it because your so young but hate you for it, thats kinda odd. Talk it out with them say you told them cause you thought you were friends and could keep something to themselfs.
Jess
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OMG my sister is 13! I would just die if I ever found out she was doing things like that at such a young age, WHATS THE RUSH???? The only thing you can is ask your friends for forgiveness.
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just tell them you dont appreciate them telling their moms bout it...ook...this is going to be weird for a change...my friend wants to know how you gave him head for her bf haha!?!?!? just put the answer in the feedback when you rate me lol
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just tell your friends that it was really uncool of them to tell their moms and all that because you trusted them and it was your decision to do what you did, tell them they really hurt you and had no right to embarass you like that especially when you trust them so much....try it out, if they get all defensive or mad or something, maybe they arent worth it and you should move on to better friends
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hahaha, give em all the middle finger and run streaking through the hallways.... just kinding. Ask your friends why they told. Tell them its hurtful and embarrased you. Talk to them about it. Be open to people. Dont deny it, just live with it. I'm sure not everyone hates you. Go be friends with the so called nerds geeks and losers, we usually accept everyone and anyone. Dont be ashamed. Be open. Talk to your friends and possibly make new ones.
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13 is a little young but your not the only girl i know that has done it. but since you already did and you already went threw with it i guess the only thing you can say to your true friends is that your sorry you hurt them and if they were your true friends theyd understand and have your back and its not like there going to do it some day. and if they still dont have your back than they arent worth it. they obviously arent good friends and if they cant understand a little thing as giving your boyfriend head than id be scaried to see how they would react if a bigger problem happened.
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