Hi! I love to give advice. All of my friends say I'm really good at it. I'm sure alot of things you ask me, I'll answer based off of experience. I've been through alot, and I know alot. I really want to help you, so please don't be afraid to ask :]
Love,
xmcrgirl5x
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Okay , So i am pregnant at 14!!! I am a christan and i no i was not suppoed to do this but i was broght into temptation.. and i am not sure how to tell my parents or my church family? Will i have to move to a different church? (link)
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I'm so sorry hun. I'm Christian too.[Well, I'm Orthodox, but it's a Christian religion] Temptation is a bad thing, and, trust me, I've done it too. I think you should start off by telling your parents. Sit down with them, and be calm. They're more likely to freak out more if you're freaking out. It really depends on your church. But, I'm sure your parents will know. Good luck!!! Keep me updated :]
Much love,
xmcrgirl5x
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my mom grounded me for having sex...im 16...wtf...i can do what i want, im almost an adult...sex doesnt have to be about love...how can i make my mom get me out of the house, i want to continue having sex and doing fun shit while i still can...*jer* (link)
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Um...are you serious?
Ok, heres the deal.
I'm 15.
I've had sex with ONE guy, we were in a very long relationship, and he gave me genital herpes. I'm not proud of it, but I'm just playing the hand I was delt. And, if that happened to me after having sex with someone I LOVED, (and yes, it IS about LOVE) then imagine what can happen to you while you're doing every guy and having "fun"?
In my opinion, "fun" isn't about having an STD or getting pregnant.
Are you protected?
Do they use condoms?
Do they have STD's?
I mean, seriously. Don't put yourself in the position where it could ruin your life. Sure, you may think you're almost an adult, but clearly from reading this, you're far from it. Any "adult" would know it was about love, and would respect their mom. Rate me as low as you want. You needed to hear that.
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hi i am a sex addict i have never acctually had sex but i do it to myself all the time is this bad i mean i am just so addicted i need help on knowing if this is bad.....please help. (link)
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Hello there :D
Well, technically you're not a "sex" addict, but you just masturbate alot. Don't worry. It's not a bad thing. It's normal :]
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Okay, I just gave one.
a) I can't get pregnant, right?
b) Am I susceptible to an STD?
c) Does this mean that according to doctors I am "sexually active"?
d) Any side effects that I need to know about? (link)
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A) Nope, not unless like, either of you touch your vagina after cum has gotten on your hand.
B)Yes, but if he doesn't have one, you'll be fine.
C)Yes, it does, unfortunately.
D)The cum or pre-cum may make you feel sick to your stomache for a few days. If it does, drink alot of water, and rest.
I hope I helped! :D
If you have any more questions, don't be afraid to ask me :]
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ok i dont know what sex, blow jobs, vagina, and cum and sperm is but i do know what a pnis is ... so tell me what it is please and also what is a dildo? what is a condom? what is a vibrater? what is a breast? and last but not least... i know what hormones r and all but i am sorta confused... i know i am ready for sex so don't tell me i am not or i will hate you i am horny and my friend says i need sex (link)
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Um, are you serious?
Ok, let me explain.
Sex, is something you do with someone you (usually) care about, and basically penis goes inside vagina. You can figure the rest of that one out.
I mean, how can you SERIOUSLY be ready for sex, when you don't even know what it is?
Get real.
Vagina, is the female genital that she urinates, contracts a child, and has sex with.
Cum and sperm are the same thing.
If a sperm cell reaches the egg, it's what impregnates a girl.
A dildo is a sex toy, same with a vibrator.
A condom is what the guy puts on his penis to help reduce the risk of pregnancy and std's and sti's.
And a breast, is a female body part located on her chest (they usually have two of them), that her infant might feed from.
Dude, your friend obviously doesn't know what they're talking about.
If you're horny, masturbate.
Don't just give it up.
Considering I just had to explain all of that to you, clearly means YOU ARE NOT READY FOR SEX.
Do you even know what the consequenses are?
Can you handle raising a child if you (if you're the girl) or your partner (if you're a guy) were to get pregnant?
I'm guessing the answer is no.
Can you handle an STD?
I'll assume no.
Don't have sex.
I can't make you not do it, but I can give my opinion.
Go ahead and hate me.
I couldn't even believe that this was a serious question.
But, I hope I helped.
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my boyfriend gave me genital herpes and I asked him to go get checked out and he pretended to get checked out. I asked him over and over did he get checked out and he finally said that he didn't go. And he keeps saying that he didn't give me the STD, but I know he did. What do I do? (link)
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Oh my god, the EXACT same thing happened to me dude! He still doesn't think I got it from him. In my honest opinion, if he doesn't believe you got it from him, and won't even go get checked, he isn't worth your time. He gave you an STD that you'll have forever. I'm going threw the same thing, and it's hard, but, it's better if he isn't in your life. Me and my, now ex boyfriend broke up, and things are getting better. It'll be hard at first, but, it'll probably be for the best. You don't need someone who isn't going to trust what you know for a fact is true. But, just do what you feel is right, and I'm here if you need anything else. Feel free to message me anytime with any questions you may have. I'm always here and happy to help! Good luck, and I hope things work out!
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before i start, do u by any chance like my chemical romance? haha
ok.
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They're my favorite band lol :]
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im 16 and this guy is 22 and im in love with him but i dont know if he love me we talk on the phone and he ask me to go to his house all the time and i do he lays downand then tell me to lay down withhim he plays with my hair and holds me i think he likes me but i dont know if he loves me i think hes mad at me b/c he was at his friends house and he wave to me and i acted like i didnt see him then later he called me and askedme to come over and i told him i couldnt then the next day he wasat his friends house and he wave at me and i turned around and went in the house he got mad and left i tried to call him that night and he didnt answer my call i havent talked to him in 4 days itried to call him today and he didnt answer or call me back i miss him and i dont know what todo i think i pushed him away and it hurts really bad please help me i love him (link)
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I think he might love you. Have you asked him? Well, don't exactly "ask" him, but, maybe say something like, "I really care about you" and see what he says. Hmm...Does he have voicemail? Just keep trying to call him. If he doesn't answer, leave a message, telling him you're sorry for the other day, and tell him you wanna talk so he should call you back. Tell him you love him though. If you love him, he needs to know. That's a way you can find out if he loves you too.
Let me know what happens!
If you want to, and have msn messenger, you can add me, and talk to me on there if you have other questions.
My e-mail is:
i_is_skittles_hear_me_roar@hotmail.com
Good luck!
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I've been gauging my ears and I am currently 2g. I have the taper and plugs for 0g and all the rest of them have been easy but for some reason I can't get the 0g taper through my ear all the way so I can put the plug in! Advice? Help! I really want to get to 0g! And I'd prefer not to blow out or tear my lobes :/ (link)
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Try putting neosporin on the taper :]
It helps it slide in easier, plus if it tears a little, the neosporin makes sure it heals better, and helps prevent infections.
I hope it works!
Good luck! :D
-xmcrgirl5x
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last night i had sex with my boyfriend and for the first time in like three weeks. I'm almost positive that he wouldn't cheat on me but i guess i don't know i'm really confused and kinda scared. Sorry for graphicness but i was pleasuring him orally and i felt these weird little things on him.. and i was just like what ever which was stupid but yeah. Now i have them on the opening around my holes and they burn... they look kinda like little taste buds or something.. is this an std or what? (link)
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Sweetie, go see a doctor NOW!
I'm always here if you have any more questions.
xmcrgirl5x
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hi.. im 17/f... and ive had a partner whom had herpes... we didnt have sexual penetration but he did rub himself on my part down there... and my question is, can you get genital herpes like that? lately ive been getting these boil like things on my genitals and theyre full of pus =/ sorry for the graphic images just in case... and they leave scars :'( plz help ..also..ive been getting sick more frequently (link)
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I have herpes, and, yes, you can get it that way. That's how I got it. Go to a doctor immediately. I'm so sorry hun, I hope you don't have it. It's horrible. But, go to a doctor.
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how do you know if you have herpes (link)
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Genital herpes-You get canker sore type things
Like, Oral herpes-you get horrible cold sores.
I hope to God you don't have it.
Go to a doctor and get checked though.
Don't wait.
-xmcrgirl5x
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okay so me and my girlfriend like to mess around. but like when we start to get really into it she says she has to stop cuz her whole body just gets tickelish to the touch.
is this uncommon?
is there anything to do to prevent it?
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Don't worry. This isn't uncommon. The same thing happens to me too lol. It's been going away the more we mess around and stuff, because I've gotten used to it. I'm not sure if it will work for your girlfriend, but, I think you should give it a try. Good luck! :]
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my teeth are yellow.
is there any home remidies i can do to get it whitter?
i dont want to buy any of those whitening strips either.
so anything at home that works good i would love to know how!!
THANKS!! (link)
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You can try brushing with normal toothpaste, then, after put some toothpaste on your toothbrush, and putting some baking soda on there. Do it every night. It really helped me. It'll taste really bad though. But, it's REALLY important not to swallow the baking soda. My brothers' boss's daughter committed suicide by drinking it in water, so it can be dangerous. [But, I'm sure she swallowed A LOT so don't worry if you swallow like, just a little bit unless you feel really sick afterwards] I hope I helped! :D
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Hi, I'm 15 and a girl. I want to try and get on the contracptive pill but I'd rather not tell my parents it is cos I am sexually active. Is there any medical reasons that can help me get on it? My periods are irregular and I get bad period pains, Could I get put on it to help that? thanks x (link)
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Yep. That's one of the reasons I'm on it. And, they help acne and stuff too :] So you could also tell your parents that. Buttt, if you get put on Yaz, which is the one you'll probably be put on, [my doctor said it's the best one for period regulation and pain] the side effects SUCK, and they last for about a week and a half to two weeks [just to let you know. I didn't know about them, and I started taking it, and I felt like, al;fjalsfjas] but, it's worth it, especially if it's to help prevent pregnancy. Good luck!
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I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend on march 9th. He withdrew and didnt cum in me. His precum should be clean bc he did not previously ejaculate and he went to the bathroom beforehand. A few days later we did it again and withdrew that time as well. We did it a third time a few days later and this time i took a Plan B pill the next day just to be safe. I usually get my period about the first of every month. Its usually a regular cycle and it stays the same. I should be getting it in the next 5 days. Im totally worried. It seems like Im having the early symptoms too. Im not sure if im imagining it though. Maybe Im just paying closer attention. The symptoms i have are the sore breasts, frequent urination, headache, nausea, and fatigue. Note: Im also getting over being sick and the nausea is only my stomach feeling queasy. And my stomach hurting has been hurting on and off since before the time we had sex. We havent done it before the 9th and we havent done anything that would get me pregnant before then either. I dont know if Im pregnant or not. Are my chances really high?
Also I dont want any answers saying how stupid we are and lectures. Whats done is done. I just want advice. (link)
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The chances are high, but not as high as they would be if he had came in you. I'm sure you don't want to do this, but, if you can, [without your parents finding out] I'd really suggest going to a doctor, or planned parenthood and getting checked. You'll probably have to wait untill you get or don't get your period though. Or you can get a test at a pharmacy. Even if you do get your period, you should probably get checked anyways. My best friend had unprotected sex, and got her period, and she was pregnant. Now, about feeling sick, you night have the flu. Your simptoms seem like the side effects I was having when I started birth control, which is strange. But, just try to get checked by a doctor, or planned parenthood, or an at home pregnancy test. I really hope everything goes well sweetie! If you have any more questions, feel free to ask me! :]
Oh, and, I agree with you. What's done is done. It kinda annoys me when people sit there and lecture, because the person knows what they did was stupid, and they were asking for advice, not a lecture.
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so i shave my pubes like regularly but its impossible to get rid of the hair close to the lips. does this happen to anyone else, or is there some thing i could do? thanks =] (link)
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That happened to me too. Like, it looked like there wasn't any hair, but there were still prickley things lol! You could try waxing [if you can, you can get a self waxing kit at like, wal-mart, or you could get it done professionaly if your parents will allow it] or you could try using a men's razor. They work ALOT better. And, instead of shaving cream/gel try conditioner. It makes it easier, and it makes the skin softer. I hope I helped! If you have any more questions, I'm happy to answer them! :D Good luck!
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ok i told you guys about my boyfriends ex who totally hates me. well i tried to tell her to back off but she wont. even my boyfriend tried to tell her to back off and she still wont. this is what she said to me on msn: look bitch i dont care what you tell alex 2 tell me but you have something that is mine and until you dont give it back im not going 2 live you guys a lone...you have my man and he is NEVER GOING 2 B your MAN OK.... cause he is mine bitch...so im going 2 beg you please go along with Kyle and leave Alex alone so everybody could b happy...i go out with alex and u go out with your little nobody hahaha...: yeah so now you see what im dealing with. can you tell me ways to get her off my case???? i feel as if i dont take care of this soon ill loose my bf. p.s shes a model and shes kinda cocky so yeah (link)
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Woah. I'm sorry, but, she's seriously...woah. She needs to learn to let him go. Tell her that. Just be like, look, obviously he likes me, not you, so you need to let him go. Even if I were to dump him, it doesn't mean he'd go out with you. If he wanted to, he would be still. Just tell her that and see how it goes. I'm so sorry you're in a situation like this. No one deserves that. And the name calling and stuff. It's rediculous. I really hope I helped sweetie! If you have any more questions, feel free to ask! :]
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okay i have a 20 gauge earring in right now and iwanna switcvh it to a 18. i wanna no will it hurt alot or barlye? (link)
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It shouldn't hurt too bad. I did the same to mine, and it just fit right in and I didn't feel anything :] Good luck!
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how long does pot last in your BLOOD system ? (link)
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Yeah, it's pretty much what the person below me said, but, they can also find it in your hair. Like, it won't ever come out of your hair, unless you chop it all off. That's why all the kids I know that smoke pot keep their heads shaved...it's kinda weird...
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