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I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend on march 9th. He withdrew and didnt cum in me. His precum should be clean bc he did not previously ejaculate and he went to the bathroom beforehand. A few days later we did it again and withdrew that time as well. We did it a third time a few days later and this time i took a Plan B pill the next day just to be safe. I usually get my period about the first of every month. Its usually a regular cycle and it stays the same. I should be getting it in the next 5 days. Im totally worried. It seems like Im having the early symptoms too. Im not sure if im imagining it though. Maybe Im just paying closer attention. The symptoms i have are the sore breasts, frequent urination, headache, nausea, and fatigue. Note: Im also getting over being sick and the nausea is only my stomach feeling queasy. And my stomach hurting has been hurting on and off since before the time we had sex. We havent done it before the 9th and we havent done anything that would get me pregnant before then either. I dont know if Im pregnant or not. Are my chances really high?
Also I dont want any answers saying how stupid we are and lectures. Whats done is done. I just want advice.
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Stop worrying so much AND USE PROTECTION NEXT TIME.
It's not a lecture, it's just what you need to do, because this kind of stress is simply not worth it.
Yes, it's quite possible that you are pregnant, but you also might not be. The best thing you can do is simply relax and wait it out. Stressing yourself out isn't going to make you 'less pregnant' if you are.
If your period is three days late, take a home pregnancy test.
In the meantime, think seriously about how you can avoid this situation in the future. Educate yourself on condom use, local planned parenthoods, and the law regarding Plan B use in your area. There is no reason you have to take this risk if you are going to have sex.
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The chances are high, but not as high as they would be if he had came in you. I'm sure you don't want to do this, but, if you can, [without your parents finding out] I'd really suggest going to a doctor, or planned parenthood and getting checked. You'll probably have to wait untill you get or don't get your period though. Or you can get a test at a pharmacy. Even if you do get your period, you should probably get checked anyways. My best friend had unprotected sex, and got her period, and she was pregnant. Now, about feeling sick, you night have the flu. Your simptoms seem like the side effects I was having when I started birth control, which is strange. But, just try to get checked by a doctor, or planned parenthood, or an at home pregnancy test. I really hope everything goes well sweetie! If you have any more questions, feel free to ask me! :]
Oh, and, I agree with you. What's done is done. It kinda annoys me when people sit there and lecture, because the person knows what they did was stupid, and they were asking for advice, not a lecture.
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Hey Honey. First of all don't worry or stress. The more you do that, the longer it's going to take for your period to come. I have been in that same spot MANY a times. It is wayyyy to early to be getting any symptomes though so what you're feeling is probbaly you just coming over the sickness. You could be, but because you took plan B after all 3 times he pulled out, I'm pretty sure you're okay. Take your mind off of it because minds tend to make us think things are happening when they really aren't. Don't focus about it (trust me I know it's hard). I would say if you don't get your period by April 10th then go on down to the drug store and buy a test, but honestly, I think you're fine. I hope everything turns out ok!!
Peace and Love
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Well since you didnt take plane be the first two times you may still be pregnant. Plan b only works the first 72 hours after you've had sex, so what if you got pregnant one of the times before? It could be your imagination though. Sometimes your body will react like your pregnant if you think about it too much. Buy a test take it out the box sneak it in your house take the test and sneak it back out. But wait until after you miss your period.
O and by the way, pulling out really doesnt work. You can get pregnant from precum.
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