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should i tell him
16/f
hey so i have been hooking up with this guy for a couple weeks, who is alot more experenced than me, hes has fingered me a couple times and i know i should give him a hand job, im ready and everything just a little nervous. Do you think i should tell him i have never gave a hand job before or just go for it and hope for the best haha. Thanks 4 your advice in advance!!!
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i think you should tell him you never have given one because with my experience i always telll guys i never have and they always like start me off, help me when i need it, or just give me advice. It helps and that way he doesn't you know expect anything GREATTT.. haha goood luck and just do it girllll
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Go with your gut.
If you think your ready, Go for it.
It's not as hard as you may think, Go to google & type "best way to give a hand job" I'm sure you'll find something.
Hope this helps.
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yeah personally, i wouldn't tell him either. i know this sounds weird but type it into google. like type 'how to give a hand job' it will help you lots :) if it turns into a total disaster (which i'm sure it won't) then tell him that it's your first time and you're not really sure what to do. that way you won't look like a total idiot.
or you could take a totally different approach and put his hand on top of yours and tell him to show you how he likes it. :)
^ haha i wish i would have thought of that idea before it would have been really helpful to me
but anyways i think that would work really wellll :) woowww i'm smart :) :)
sorry it's late i'm tired hope i helped
JOBROLOVER<33
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Personally, I wouldn't tell him. It would probably make it awkward. Just go with your gut.
But if you're really worried about it, you can always look up techniques on google. Through experience, I've realized that you should just stick to the basics, don't try anything too fancy, either way you end up in the same place right?
If what you're doing seems ineffective ask him to show you how he likes it done because you want to *please him to the highest extent*, then add a sexy smile. All guys are different, and like different things. Some prefer tighter grips while others prefer looser. Some prefer fast, others like it when the speeds are switched up. KNOW what he likes and use that to your advantage.
Work that wrist, girl;)
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i actually think you shouldnt tell him causethats kinda weird and he might be turned off by that
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I would tell him. Being honest about things like that is your best bet. You wouldn't want him thinking you're lying to him or something.
--Jack
(16/m)
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