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ok well does anyone else have times where they want their chest to be touched/massaged/or even just looked at.
cuz idk but i have them times a bunch

haha yes whenever when im with my bf but it seems like he can read my mind

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So I have a really great boyfriend, like he's amazing, very cute,sweet and everything.
Just that whenever we cuddle on the couch, he always places his band under my shirt, and just plays with my stomach rubs it, and jiggles it and stuff.
He says stuff like "Ah, you're little belly is so cute."
But I feel weird, because I'm not chubby or anything, quite average, but I do have a tiny bit of a tummy. And he's skelatal.
It just makes me akward, but since he likes to I won't stop him, I just don't know why he likes it so much.

try talking to him and ask him why, and then tell
him how you feel about it my bf does the same its
really weird and it sort of makes me feel insecure

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how do i get rid of a hicky

what you do is get ice to numb it get a chapstick or lipstick cap and put it on the hicky and twist it
its an easy way to get rid of it and it works fast because a hicky is a blood clot and by twisting it your loosening the clot. Dont listen to the other people

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15/f

i'm not sure if i'm a good kisser or not. i mean, i've made outtt with alot of guys. but i wasn't fully there, a little drunk to be honest, and so were they. that was middle school. yeah i know that was bad, i'm not like that anymore. anyways, i know, i'm getting close to having some serious relationships now that i'm in highschool. and i dont wanna like go to kiss them, and tottaly suck. do you think since i've had a ton of experience before, even though i dont really remember what i did, i'll still be good?

+ how do i get rid of the bad reputation i had in middle school? i mean im not like that at alllllllll anymore. like i learned how to have a good time without it, and i'm not just, that person amyore. all these weird people always come up to me, or IM me, and be like, oh yeah i heard your like the life of the party at parties, how much beer can you bring? and ahh. yeah no. i want that to stop. what can i do?

I have had the same problem. Honestly Ive met guys who have had experience and still suck at kissing but thats only because he either had bad breath of tried sticking his tounge down my throat it was disgusting other than that its was good. As for the bad reputation I honestly am still working on getting rid of mine its not going so well so yeah

- I hopee this helped I really do

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So me and this kid from a different town started going out 4 weeks ago. we dont really see eachother that much. maybe like twice a week. but ive known him pretty much forever. Anyways so we broke up because i just had a lot going out and i kinda lost feelings for him. Than i found out while we were going out that he hooked up with someone at homecoming. Which he said to my face that he wouldnt do. When i asked him about it he pretty much didnt care and told me to drop it. Than i saw him the other night and he came up to me and said sorry and i hope we can get back together. he told my bestfriend he still "loves" me and stuff. So that night i texted him [we dont talk on the phone that much because i dont ever have service] and we talked a little. but he hasnt texted me since, and i dont want to be annoying about it. But he said he wanted to get back together. What should i do? I still like him and everything.

Sorry if that was long/confusing!

this is a hard question but ill try to to help. I don't think you should because this guy sound doesn't really sound like he likes you that much. Plus you guys hardly ever see each other. so that can be depressing. But this is just my opinion.

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I am dating my friends ex, and have been dating him happily for about 5 months.
Yes, it was a bit dramatic at first, but everything between my friend and both of us is grand now. Thier relationship was a short one and they were pretty mis-matched.

The problem is a lot of our mutual friends don’t know this or they suspect it, but don’t actually know for certain. She never told anyone (I had mistakenly assumed she had told most people), and our friends are used to me being pretty tight lipped about my love-life. I’m not sure how to bring it up now without it seeming like I was misleading people before.

I doesn’t help that most of our friends did not like him during their short relationship (I practically loathed him myself). They were very dysfunctional and miserable together. I don’t expect our mutual friends to be happy for me or for us all to hang out as one big group or anything. I just feel like they should know.

Any thoughts on if/how to tell them?

hmmmm well with girls theres always drama. If you really like this guy then your friends should back you up one hundred percent. But if their you best friends they should know. of course their not gonna like it and be happy but they cant do anything about it.

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