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Boyfriend Problems
Soo ive been dating this kid for the past 14 months.. We have been on and off but i think our relationhip is pretty strong.. Anywayz about a week ago i got caught smeakin over to his house for the night and his mom flipped out on me.. She completely cut me down and then kicked me out of her house.. Then she called my parents and told them that me and my boyfriend were on crack! Which is all lies. Since then my boyfriends mom took his car, threatned a restraining order againt me, tryin to get random drugs test on me and him, took his cell and pretty much isnt goin to let us see each other.. So now i cant relle see him and i barely talk to him and i feel liek things are falling apart.. He said he would do anyhting to fix out relationship... but is it relle worht it?
Please help..
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girl your the only one whos going to know if its really worth it..always try no matter what until theres absolutely nothing left to do. i would have your parents, his parents, you and him all sit down and talk about it.
his mom is definitely over reacting, but your best bet is to sit down with your parents after dinner one night, and let them know "hey look, him and i want to keep seeing eachother, and i'm willing do whatever you guys want me to do to have that privilege earned back.." say something like "if it means only seeing him when you guys are home and we sit in the living room, thats fine." let them know you dont do drugs, and if it comes down to it then tell them they can randomly test you. let them know you realize you make a bad decision but you want to handle it all maturely and responsibly. then see what they say, and have them call his parents to arrange dinner or something at your house, so they can figure out what to do.
im real sorry you got caught, thats a bummer, but just give it some time, dont lose him over something like his mother lol, he'd be so bummed. lol. ahw.
i hope it all works out girl.
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hope i helped!
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Have you ever tried talking this out with your parents? I think you should bring ur parents and his mom together for a talk. She wont listen to what you have to say but she obviously will listen to your parents. Tell your parents this
: "Mom,Dad, if you want you dont have to trust me anymore for your whole life but just this one time ...trust me. I can lie about anything but this." I think they should get convinced. But I think you should try everything to get this guy coz if it were someone else it would have been over and dont worry if a relationship is worth it it will really find a way out of the mess...
Best Of Luck hun...
xxxxxDarkSide89xxxxx
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