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probly cancer im 14
im fourteen female, and soo many people in my family have lived through or died of cancer, nineteen died that i know about. my mom thinks i have cancer but shes not freakin out or anything, is she just tryin to keep me calm. im leaving on vacation in two days and i really dont wana get it checked out before i leave so i worry about it all vacation, im going through alot, and when i go im getting checked out for bipolar, depression, restless leg syndrom,stomach problems notjustlilproblems and i say adhd but my mom says i dont but every possible thing leads up to it. plus im trying to help two of my best friends out their both suicideal n iv been through it everyone else is makin it worse, and iv been getting heartbroken by the same jerk so many times, we were bffs, and everyone i love dies when i get close to them D:
i just dont wana ruin my vacation, im loosing it i dont feel good at all so many things are happening to me and i cant even cry, i might sound stupid but i just wana go somewhere with my family if its the last time. sooo should i get checked out about cancer, its a very big mole that was a speck when i was a baby but it has grown so fing big and it looks cancerous?
but what else could i do for the rest of the stuff typed up there too? please help me on any of it or all. i refuse a phsycologist or any of thoes people. iv had a very hard life mainly the mental side of it. but i just wana live happy and forget all this, im also leaving alll my friends for highschool next year, i can be the friendliest person ever if im ina good modd but im such a botch if im not. please help me, i need many opinions
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Not all moles are cancerous. They are very
common to have. My husbands family has had
a lot of cancer deaths as well. The best
prevention is yearly physicals to catch it
in its earliest stages where it is more
curable.
So, go to the doctor. Ease your moms mind
as well as your own. It is probably harmless
but why put it off with your family history?
You will be able to enjoy vacation a lot more knowing you are fine. Getting all your problems
under control will help you to enjoy your
vacation so much more. :)
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ok, a mole that you have had since you were a baby is not cancer. ALL moles get bigger as we get bigger. thats weird your mom told you that. it sounds like you and she are worried about alot of things that you might or might not have. im not sayin that this is the situation but look up hypocondria. its a disorder that can cause all these feelings. maybe this is what your mom is experiencing. I let my mom read this post and she was like o wow, i cant believe her mom is telling her that. dont let this ruin your vacation. but remember, if your mom really believed in was cancer she would be takin you to a doc and not on vacation right?
hope i helped
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okay girl, bipolar, depression, RLS are NOT cancer.. so if thats what you're being tested for dont stress so much. theres medicines that you can take that help regulate all of that. As for the mole you have, truthfully, it could be cancerous, however those types of things can be removed and you'll be all better (:
Its good to know you're trying to be a great friend, but let your friends know, that no one/nothing is worth taking their own life. NOTHING AND NO ONE. honestly, life is hard at times, but everything happens for a reason and just know that everything too is okay in the end, if its not okay, is not the end. you can do it (:
as for any boy issues, girlfriend theres so many boys in the world (: (: your young and still have high school ahead of you, and truthfully live life to the fullest, have lots of friends (going to a new school= a fresh new start), enjoy yourself and be that friendly person you know you can be.
smiles are free so give them away (:
anything, feel free to ask me!
hope i helped you out. good luck and take care girl (:
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