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im 14 and i dont know if im bi, i think i like girls whenever i see i pretty girl i usaully think "shes pretty" and i cant just stop staring. i always wanted to kiss a girl but everyone i know is straight i licked a girls lip before and i kinda liked it so im confused.. well please help (link)
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OK you are only 14. you arent old enough to know exactly what you are sexually yet. Its normal to have feelings towards the same sex. however you very well may be bisexual. the best advice i can give you is be yourself. if this is the way you feel then dont hold it inside. this leads to depression and anger with having to hide how you truly feel. Maybe talk to your Dad and Mom about how you are feeling and maybe even speak with a councelor. Above all be true to yourself
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So, my family has a family plan from verizon wireless. We had texting, but my sister ended up going wayyy over her texting limit, and my mom got rid of her texting. But, she also got rid of mine, which is completely not fair. She said that with the family plan if you want to take away one person's texting privillages, you have to take it away for everyone? is this true, or was she lying to me? i was thinking maybe she was lying to me because she doesnt want me to go over my limit, but i know i wont. does anyone know of a plan from verizon that makes you do have to do that? (link)
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sorry to say but she isnt right. we have verizon and each person has thier own plan. she is probably just telling you this so that she doesnt have to wrry about a big bill again if someone goes over
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i have verizon and my boyfriend has t mobile
he lives in florida and i live in illinois
we talk everynight from aroud 9 and sometimes past two
yesterday we talked from around 2 to 430.
i know that is long distance. how much did that cost? (link)
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didnt you just ask this question? haha
ok if you are talking on cell phones it is NOT long distance. read a little about your cell plan so you are more informed about everything it offers. most plans if not all are nationwide and so it uses minutes but is not long distance. you seem quite concerned to be asking twice so im assuming you are worried about your Dad and mom freaking right? just ask them abotu the plan you have and continue to talk at night like you are and all should be fine
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what do you call a bunch of bananas when they're naturally all together? (link)
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haha you didnt realize but you answered your question yourself. alot of bananas together are actually technically called a "bunch" so when you say i have a bunch of bananas you are using the right term.
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So if there are any guys to answer this that'd be great. Girls can attempt too. Do guys actually enjoy going down on a girl? I know they get enjoy making a girl feel good... but do they actually enjoy doing it? haha thanks (link)
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well, i think it all depends. in my situation my guy loves doing that to me. He says he didnt like doing it at all before because the last girl he was with didnt keep her umm area? trimmed or taken care of at all and so it was very smelly lol
im sure there are some guys that like it or dont but alot of the time it depends on how well a girl takes care of herself
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I'm a 13 year old girl and guys at my school only like girls who are big chested and have big butts,I was wondering if theres anything
(non steryl)I could do to make my butt and breasts grow faster(get bigger)
I have a pretty face and all but no ones interested in that.
So is there anything I can do before school starts in September? (link)
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although the other answers below are thr way things should be..its not how things REALLY are. of course boys should love you for who you are but there is nothing wrong for wanting to help your look and confidence a bit.
There are many differnt bras example: water bras pushup and such that are available at reasonable prices and available at places like target and walmart and as far as for your booty look for a low rise jean. this will usually make your rear appear larger and more round than it is.
Hope i helped!
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Im going to visit my fiance in 19 days. I really want to make love to him. But i also want it to be special. I went to www.victoriassecret.com and clicked on the sleepwear. I really dont know what type i should buy. What turns guys on. I dont want to ask him which one he likes better but i do want to surprise him. There are so many types. I need your opinion on if i should get the dress looking ones, or the ones that are see through or the ones that are opening in the middle. Im not sure. But i dont want one that looks too slutty but i do want one thats romantic.
So back to my questions. 1. What type should i buy? 2. Which one will be best. 3. Any ideas on anything special that i can get to make it amazing. 4. Any ideas on how to get into it. (link)
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it seems like mybe this is your first time with him? maybe? anyway. i know guys love lingerie of any kind so dont put too much pressure on yourself. I wouldnt buy anything flashy but soft colors and simple. maybe even like matching bra and panties. so this way it looks like you just always dress sexy underneath your clothes and you werent trying to hard. :-) I agree with some of the other answers. many things like soft lips to soft flowing hair ( not too much hairspray!!)
all these things would work. Good Luck and have fun on your trip!
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my boyfriend lives in florida while i live in illinois.
we talk on the phone at night cause from 9-2 its free.
i was wondering if we talk past 2 if it counts as long distance
he has tmobile and i have verizon
if i talk to him on my house phone will it be better or no? (link)
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not to be rude but the persons answer above is completely off It doesnt cost any more money to call someones cell phone that it does a house phone. If you are calling from a cell and you have nationwide then it just uses your minutes. It doesnt cost extra at all. However calling from one hosue number to another IS long distance and would be very expensve. I would do what you are doing now. call each others cells after nine and it wont cost either of you minutes. im not sure about the 2 am thing. most "day" minutes dont start until 6 am. call your cell comp to see though to be sure. by the way, good luck with long distance relationships, they usually dont work. unless you are an adult and can see each other then mybe good luck hope i hlped
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I met a guy on vacation and we both really love each other n he asked me out I said yes. But I really dono, I love him, but it turned into a long distance relationship and so far I just cant take it. Were total opposites but we both love each other but if I am gona keep getting broken by it and never be able to see him only talk, what is the use. Even last night, he wouldn’t talk to me so him n my bff could text, then talking about each other non stop to me wtf. But then he asked if it was ok if he added her to his myspace an if its ok that he would not call me n I just texted “I guess, bye” “ok well have fun ima proly just go to sleep now bye I love u, night”. They both know I had an extremely bad day and that im bipolar and just having trouble. I can’t even explain it to my other friend, but I finally told her about my depression an bipolar an what had been going on w me, n told her I was done with life done with whatever it is im trying to live through. What can I do its down to stupid stuff like this that bothers me enough to cry hard for 3 hours. when i said im about to loose it, i just lost it. (link)
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I know alot about bipolar disorder. I know a woman who is actually very bipolar. some advice i can first give you is sont use it as an excuse in your life. The fact that you are bipolar is no reason or excuse to be able to act out or treat people badly. If you are feeling like you are done with life than i thnk you should immediately contact a suicide hotline or somehting like that. These are two very seperate issues. Your bf issue and being bipolar. Separate these and work on them individually
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i am 14 years old, and about two months ago i lost my verginity to my 17 year old boyfriend. we werent even going out for 2 months yet, and we didnt even know eachother for 3 months. but we were both vergins and i know he really wanted to lose his verginity. and it was prom night, so it was kind of expected. i wanted to have sex with him, but i never wanted to become who my friends are who lost their verginities at 12 and 13. there is something seriously wrong with my town where girls thing its okay to have sex in junior high, and i know its not wrong. i dont feel like i was pressured into sex but i feel like i wanted to wait and now theres no turning back. and me and my boyfriend are incredibly close and i know we'll be together for the rest of my high school and i honestly want to grow with him into a family when we get older but i just dont know if i feel right about this.. like when im a parent, and my kids ask me when i first had it, im going to have to say 14 and im going to have to live forever knowing that i was a little slut. and im so worried that im going to like emotionally break down because i worry too much about this.. i dont know what to do, should iu stop having sex with him? even though theres no turning back, and i do enjoy it.? i just dont know. and i absolutly cannot talk to my mom about it. she believes in sex after marriage and expects me to stick with it. and she would deffinitely dig a hole and burry me in it if she found out.. please help (link)
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ok first of all ...the likelihood of you staying with the same guy is very low. You are being very naive to think that. Sorry.
14 is a very young age to be starting to have sex. If you are so unsure that you are asking for advice about this then that is a big red flag that you are not ready and should stop asap
sex brings many things... baby, stds, and if sometimes even death (AIDS) I would seriously think this over.
hope i helped
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i want to get everyone in my family a small gift just to show how much i love and care about them. any ideas? (i want everyone to get the same thing) and money really isnt a problem. i have five people to get gifts for (link)
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good thing for this is to buy everyone a gift card to thier fav place. Like restarants for people that like to eat out, baqth and Body works gift card for girls, ya know, diff stuff like that. everyone likes to pick out what they want!!
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im fourteen female, and soo many people in my family have lived through or died of cancer, nineteen died that i know about. my mom thinks i have cancer but shes not freakin out or anything, is she just tryin to keep me calm. im leaving on vacation in two days and i really dont wana get it checked out before i leave so i worry about it all vacation, im going through alot, and when i go im getting checked out for bipolar, depression, restless leg syndrom,stomach problems notjustlilproblems and i say adhd but my mom says i dont but every possible thing leads up to it. plus im trying to help two of my best friends out their both suicideal n iv been through it everyone else is makin it worse, and iv been getting heartbroken by the same jerk so many times, we were bffs, and everyone i love dies when i get close to them D:
i just dont wana ruin my vacation, im loosing it i dont feel good at all so many things are happening to me and i cant even cry, i might sound stupid but i just wana go somewhere with my family if its the last time. sooo should i get checked out about cancer, its a very big mole that was a speck when i was a baby but it has grown so fing big and it looks cancerous?
but what else could i do for the rest of the stuff typed up there too? please help me on any of it or all. i refuse a phsycologist or any of thoes people. iv had a very hard life mainly the mental side of it. but i just wana live happy and forget all this, im also leaving alll my friends for highschool next year, i can be the friendliest person ever if im ina good modd but im such a botch if im not. please help me, i need many opinions (link)
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ok, a mole that you have had since you were a baby is not cancer. ALL moles get bigger as we get bigger. thats weird your mom told you that. it sounds like you and she are worried about alot of things that you might or might not have. im not sayin that this is the situation but look up hypocondria. its a disorder that can cause all these feelings. maybe this is what your mom is experiencing. I let my mom read this post and she was like o wow, i cant believe her mom is telling her that. dont let this ruin your vacation. but remember, if your mom really believed in was cancer she would be takin you to a doc and not on vacation right?
hope i helped
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my bf was "stroking his salami" so that when i sucked his dick, it'd be close and i wouldn't have to do much work. little did he know, it was closer than he thought and my head was right above it. so he "came" and it got in my eye. :/ is there anything bad that can happen from this? right now my eye is all red and small and hurts. please help. thanks (link)
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you should hve nothing to worry about. the reason it is all red and stuff is cause you have probably been looking at it and rubbing it and stuff. buttt if your bf has a std or something you can contract it that way. look up info on stds and be more careful next time!
hope i helped
cici
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Okay, my birthday is on Monday, but my family had to celebrate it today. My mom gave me my "big" present today... it was a camera. I ALREADY HAVE A CAMERA. sure, my old ones a piece of crap but like seriously! She wasted like $200.00 of my birthday present on something i don't even want. It's pissing me off. Should i tell her i don't want it? Thats easier said than done. So i don't know what to do. PLEAASEEE helpp! (link)
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sorry but this has to be said. I have to agree with the other answer. you sound very selfish about this. your mom bought you a 200 dollar camera and you are a teenager! just accept what you got and stop whining. i could understand being disapointed but why pissed? be thnkful and move on
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I have a crush on 2 girls. I can't decide witch I should go with. How do I decide??? (link)
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make a list of each one. pros and cons. and weigh them out that way. i have been through this before too and sometimes it blows up in your face if you try to date both, so dont try that!
hope i helped.
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I'm turning 14, and i need to know what to spend my money on. I'm really into clothes, but i don't know if i should go all out and go on a shopping spree. I have a sewing machine. I have an ipod, case, and speackers. I have a tv with dvd player. I don't want any dvd suggestions. Maye a purse would be cool, but where should i get it from? i ABSOLOTLY hate doney and bourke. i have a cell phone. i just got a camers =[.
what can i get? (link)
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dooney and bourke have been out for a longgg time girl! tke a look at gucci prada stuf like that
its sounds like you have lots of stuf tho. maybe save it? you dnt always have to immediately spend all your money also if you have enough you could get a computer, thats a good thing to buy
hope I helped
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my period isn't dark red like usual, rather its in between red and pink. lighter than usual for sure. i had sex on wednesday without protection but my bf didnt cum and got my period this morning and i've been bleeding continuously but very light flow. whats wrong? (link)
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don t be alarmed but this may be "conception" bleeding, basically when the egg and sperm connect and implantation occurs you can have very light bleeding. Butttt it may not be that at all. Id take an early pregnancy test as soon as poss to make sure.
p.s. just because your bf didnt cum doesnt mean you cant get pregnant pre-cum comes out during sex almost 99 percent of the time and the guy never feels like he did anything. Always use protection. If your boyfriend really loves you he will have no problem doin that. Good luck let me know how the test turns out
Hope I helped
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Girl / 15/
Bacially I have a really bad thumping pain - it's where my pelvis is but just slightly lower near the sort of "start" of my "private area"
I have no idea what is. I feel as if it has something to do with my period. But i dont know! I'm not on my period and i dont really get pains or anything
Its just under my pelvis on the left and it just thumps and stings and its been like this for a week (link)
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ive had this before. I dnt think its serious but you never know. Mine was just my period cramps or like right before. as your parents or doctor. If you get these right before your period then this is probably right. if not id def check into it
hope i helped
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I REALLY want a NORMAL cell phone (I have a disposable and HATE IT) can anyone help me with a good argument against my mom to get one (not much money for one, so it needs to be cheep) (link)
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you saID disposable do you mean the prepay min fones? You can sometimes find some cute ones at different places. If you still really want a regular phone make a list of total costs usually the cost per minute is more than the reg fones write or type it all up and show them maybe when they see that they will save money then they will give in! Hope I helped
p.s. ebay is a cheap place to find fones
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I have moved once more. It is nothing but a pain though. I have moved quite far from my friends and I feel very lonely, and thanks to the school year ending, I have no friends here. I would walk around my neighborhood but I am afraid that I might get hurt since this is a new town and a new place. What should I do?
PS: My b-day is in like 4 days, I might still be able to hang with some friends then though. Key word: might. (link)
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frst of all Happy Bday! I noticed you said you "moved again" Is there a reason you keep moving to different places? My dad is in the military so we do tht alot too. If this is your sitation too then get used to it fast! Its not easy to keep moving. Talk to your parents. Tell you mom and dad that the move is hard and you need to see your friends fast They should understand that~~ If your situation is not because your dad or moms job or whateverr then hopefully this will be your last move and you can make perm bffs
hope i helped
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