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am i bi?? im confused
im 14 and i dont know if im bi, i think i like girls whenever i see i pretty girl i usaully think "shes pretty" and i cant just stop staring. i always wanted to kiss a girl but everyone i know is straight i licked a girls lip before and i kinda liked it so im confused.. well please help
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By definition, since you are attracted to women, and possibly see yourself having sex/sexual relations with them, you are most likely a lesbian.
If you see yourself having sex with both men AND women, and you are attracted to both, you are most likely bisexual, though I see that as a state-of-mind rather than a forever type of thing.
If you see yourself having sex with ONLY men and you are attracted to only men, you are straight.
Your sexuality is determined mainly by which sex[es] you engage in sexual activities with. But don't be in a rush to figure out you're sexuality. You're only just a teenager and you have your entire life ahead of you.
Thinking another girl is pretty doesn't make you a lesbian. Wanting to kiss her and have sex with her does.
--Jack
(16/m)
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OK you are only 14. you arent old enough to know exactly what you are sexually yet. Its normal to have feelings towards the same sex. however you very well may be bisexual. the best advice i can give you is be yourself. if this is the way you feel then dont hold it inside. this leads to depression and anger with having to hide how you truly feel. Maybe talk to your Dad and Mom about how you are feeling and maybe even speak with a councelor. Above all be true to yourself
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Alcoholics don't just become alcoholics. Drug addicts don't become addicted all at once. Have you ever noticed that man is the only species on earth that has sex with it's own gender? We are also the only species that has a conscience. The stronger dog will take from all the weaker species with no feelings of remorse. If that smaller dog dies because of the larger, the larger doesn't care. We know the difference between right and wrong and also have the free will to do whatever we please. Humming birds only build one type of nest and tigers don't eat roots and berries. They are pre-wired to live the way they were designed. They have no choice. God gave free will to man only. If you experiment with unnatural behaviors long enough then the same fate as the drug addict and alcoholic will also over come you.
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From my experience, it is not unusually to be attracted to the same sex, it is usually just curiousity. I think it is perfectly normal, and it is normal for teens to be confused about thier sexuality.
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