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Wanting Opinion on Lingerie and Ideas from Guys and Girls Im going to visit my fiance in 19 days. I really want to make love to him. But i also want it to be special. I went to www.victoriassecret.com and clicked on the sleepwear. I really dont know what type i should buy. What turns guys on. I dont want to ask him which one he likes better but i do want to surprise him. There are so many types. I need your opinion on if i should get the dress looking ones, or the ones that are see through or the ones that are opening in the middle. Im not sure. But i dont want one that looks too slutty but i do want one thats romantic.
So back to my questions. 1. What type should i buy? 2. Which one will be best. 3. Any ideas on anything special that i can get to make it amazing. 4. Any ideas on how to get into it.
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lingerie is actually pretty simple to buy. go by your personality. thats what turns the guy on the most. if you're most innocent, go with the one that covers up more but still shows a little, if you're more adventrous go for the one that is more flashy. your guy will like the fact that you took the time to buy the lingerie, and he'll like it more if it fits your personality. ]
Yess I'll have to agree with mari-elena! Guys get turned on by the little things. So just buy what you find is sexy. If you have trouble with colors, go for the sexy black!
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I think babydolls and anything lacy would be great. Those ones with side slits could be sexy as well, because it's showing some extra skin. I'm sure even a slip/nightie would work too if it hugs your curves. Just leave the rest for his imagination.
You could always excuse yourself to the bathroom and change.. and come out wearing a bathrobe. You could also wear it under a nice dark flowy dress. ]
it seems like mybe this is your first time with him? maybe? anyway. i know guys love lingerie of any kind so dont put too much pressure on yourself. I wouldnt buy anything flashy but soft colors and simple. maybe even like matching bra and panties. so this way it looks like you just always dress sexy underneath your clothes and you werent trying to hard. :-) I agree with some of the other answers. many things like soft lips to soft flowing hair ( not too much hairspray!!)
all these things would work. Good Luck and have fun on your trip! ]
guys can get turned on real easily by things we never even think about, like the way our lips look with the color lipstick we are wearing or how sexy our eyes look when we do our make up right lol. lingerie is often a sexy gesture for the bedroom but there are ways you can turn him on before he even sees what you are wearing. for example the way you smell often triggers something in a guys mind. guys love when girls smell good. personally i used 'amber romance' by victorias secret and a lot of people compliment me on the way i smell. so try your favorite scent to start off with. as far as lingerie try wearing something that compliments the parts of your body that he likes. maybe he is a boob guy, so try wearing a bra or bustier that will give more emphasis to your boob. or maybe he's a butt guy. i often think that thongs and g strings are overrated so i would try a really sexy pair of boyshorts. they make your butt look cute and also give your hips and pelvic area sex appeal.
to start the night off romantic, first make him his favorite dinner or you guys go out to one of your favorite places to eat. then have something set up for the bedroom when you guys get home. i know its cliche but candles and a dimmed room do really give off the love making mood.
if this doesn't help you just let me know. or tell me more about him and what he likes. ]
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