I'm 18 but alot of people say that I look 15 years old which gets me down. Any ways to look older or my age?
i have the same problem lol. im short and skinny and it just makes people think that im a lot younger than i really am. however i used to have long hair when people told me that i still looked young. Then i decided to get my hair cut. its just like the style victoria beckham has. its really cute, easy to deal with, and people say it made me look more mature and older.
i know that its hard to deal with people always sayin you look young because in different situations you want to look older. but older people always tell me to take advantage of the fact that you look young because when we get older we will still look 20 even if we are 30 :)
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okayyy, so long story short.
i met this guy and he seems to be interested, and he said he wants to hangout with me really bad. he also compliments me and my assets hhaha. well, we;re supposed to hangout and every single time we're supposed to we never end up hanging out bc he either has rugby or a project or osemthing. he told me to keep tuesday open bc thats the day we're going to go out, well its getting later and later and he hasnt msged me or anything,
what is his problem ?
thankss :)
oh.
and he msged me back last night (i wasnt on msn though so i got it today) and hes like "haha srry i was at rugby then i went to my buddys house and took and nap and fell asleep there"
wtf.
ahhaaha .
well the guy seems like he does like you but he has a really busy schedule and always breaks plans.However, him going over to his friends house after rugby then thats a little weird. So i think you should just let him keep coming to you, whenever he wants to make plans dont get your hopes up because he might pull one of his excuses. That doesn't mean that you have to be all distant with him, just date around until he actually goes through with it. I hope i helped love :)
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hi me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 and a half months im 19 and so is he when we first starting dating it was great he called me every night he texted me all the time and we always had fun together now he rarely calls or texts if he does call its around midnight and if i call him he is always with his friends and either says i cant talk right now or he talks to them the whole time while i am on the phone listeneing and sometimes he calls me when he is with the friends and i just have to listen to him talk to them and now we are always fighting he never invites me to do anything with him and his friends anymore either he awways teels me wat hes doing as hes doing it doesnt even invite me and his friends are over every night and he says he didnt invite them that they have a key and he doesnt even wanna b there with them we never really go out anymore we just sit at home and watch tv he says he is always romantic but i cant even remember the last time he was wat should i do to help our relationship
i can understand where you are coming from because it doesn't feel good to be somewhat neglected. and i think that is how you are feeling. but usually when people spend sooo much time together they start to get sick of it because they are so used to being with the same person everyday. i think right now he just wants to find sometime with his friends and just be around the guys. However, that doesn't give him an excuse to just cut you out of the picture and do the things that he does to you. The only way you can fix this situation is to let him know how you are feeling, just sit him down and tell him to let you talk and make sure he doesn't say anything until you are completely finished. I know how annoying it can be to talk to someone and have them sit there and not even listen to a word your saying. Let him know that you dont feel as though things are the way they used to be. Maybe you guys can come to some agreement because its obvious that he wants time with his friends. So you should be able to go out and do the same exact thing. When he's out with the guys, you can be out with your friends too. It's good to be able to balance relationships with boyfriends and best friends. if he can't handle being a boyfriend then you should take a break. This is def. not a selfish move on your part because it takes 2 people to have a relationship. As long as he can understand where your coming from things will be fine. :]
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ok so this guy has asked me out at least 4 times in the same semester of school and i said no to all of them and i wanted to say yes but i never had a boyfriend and he has ALOT of experience and i really like him, skool just ended and i found out he is leaving the skool so i still talk to on myspace (btw i never talked to him at skool)so he like says Damn u look fine in that picture and i love it when he says that so like i want to go out with him but he is going to a differnet skool. I want to ask 4 his number but im scared, i also want to ask if he wants to go out sometime but i know he will kiss me and i dont know how i never had a boyfriend
HELPPPP!!!!!
what could i do with him on our first date???
the most you can do is at least give it a try and go for it. I mean i know alot of people may say that a relationship wont work once the 2 people are away from eachother and in reality that is usually how it goes. but thats just the matter of how both of you guys feel about not being able to see eachother day. i think you should keep talking to him and let him make the first move and if he's shy then maybe you can just suggest hanging out, so then it doesn't sound like your trying to set up a date. find out what kind of things he likes to do and just get to know him. its quite obvious that he's interested and wants to be with you. That doesn't mean you have to rush into a relationship though. just take things slow and just get to know eachother better.
first dates are always weird at first but once you guys warm up to eachother it gets better.
as far as date ideas try doing something you are both interested in like mini golfing or swimming, something along those lines. Especially since its summer there are a lot more options. the date doesn't always have to be dinner and a movie because you always have that weird feeling of "is he going to pay?" or "should i bring my own money?" im a half beleiver in the boy paying for the girl but on first dates you guys should try going half and half i mean its fair and less uncomfortable. if he tries to kiss you then let him, if thats what you want to. If your not ready to kiss then just tell him that you dont feel comfortable on the first date. hope i helped you love :]
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Im going to visit my fiance in 19 days. I really want to make love to him. But i also want it to be special. I went to www.victoriassecret.com and clicked on the sleepwear. I really dont know what type i should buy. What turns guys on. I dont want to ask him which one he likes better but i do want to surprise him. There are so many types. I need your opinion on if i should get the dress looking ones, or the ones that are see through or the ones that are opening in the middle. Im not sure. But i dont want one that looks too slutty but i do want one thats romantic.
So back to my questions. 1. What type should i buy? 2. Which one will be best. 3. Any ideas on anything special that i can get to make it amazing. 4. Any ideas on how to get into it.
guys can get turned on real easily by things we never even think about, like the way our lips look with the color lipstick we are wearing or how sexy our eyes look when we do our make up right lol. lingerie is often a sexy gesture for the bedroom but there are ways you can turn him on before he even sees what you are wearing. for example the way you smell often triggers something in a guys mind. guys love when girls smell good. personally i used 'amber romance' by victorias secret and a lot of people compliment me on the way i smell. so try your favorite scent to start off with. as far as lingerie try wearing something that compliments the parts of your body that he likes. maybe he is a boob guy, so try wearing a bra or bustier that will give more emphasis to your boob. or maybe he's a butt guy. i often think that thongs and g strings are overrated so i would try a really sexy pair of boyshorts. they make your butt look cute and also give your hips and pelvic area sex appeal.
to start the night off romantic, first make him his favorite dinner or you guys go out to one of your favorite places to eat. then have something set up for the bedroom when you guys get home. i know its cliche but candles and a dimmed room do really give off the love making mood.
if this doesn't help you just let me know. or tell me more about him and what he likes.
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Okay, so I'm not a caffeine JUNKY, but lately I've been drinking around two cups of coffee per day, mainly to keep alert while studying. I don't want to depend on coffee to keep me awake...but of course, I don't want to be worn out by mid-afternoon. I am planning to start a basic workout routine, like doing yoga or going swimming, and I am sure it'll help keep me energized...for now, once I sit down at a desk, I feel kind of tired after a couple hours or so.
But anyway, I have a couple of questions:
>>A) How can I give up coffee/caffeine without feeling lethargic and tired?
B)Any ideas on other things (only natural) I can eat/drink that will keep me energized? I have heard that green tea is good- any ideas on that?
Thank you!
well maybe you should try getting more sleep and if you already do get enough hours of sleep then heres how you can get better sleep. i read in a magazine that doing things before you go to bed will help you sleep better.
1. dancing to music
2. do some yoga like you already do
3. read a magazine or book or anything interested for that matter.
carbs usually give you energy, before track meets or any kind of sporting event its good to eat pasta or something good on carbs.
hopefully you can kick the coffee thing because im pretty much dependent on coffee and i get headaches when i dont drink it everyday. it sucks but its what i crave the first thing in the morning.
i hope i helped
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I listen to metal and so on. Heavy and loud :)
I was wondering what's a style where I can still wear my band shirts, but also have a touch of femininity in my style also with a touch of uniquness.
I've been trying different things, but nothing looks right :(
well theres lots to do with a band shirt.
i like to feel comfortable but still have a little kick to what im wearing. i like to wear a tshirt thats a little bit bigger thats almost passing my butt, with any pair of skinny jeans. the shirt and jeans still give you your rocker look, then to add femininity try a pair of black flats or any color that will match. a headband will also give you a more feminine vibe.
you can use the shoes and headbands to your advantage trying different colors even if they dont exactly go with the color of your shirt, it will give you that uniqueness.
i hope i could help feel free to ask me more about it, if i didnt really give you a clear answer. :]
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I'm 16/f and I'm half black half white and my hair is annoyingly difficult to work with. It's naturally curly and I like to use a flat iron to make it straight. However no matter if it's straight or curly it always puffs and it's really annoying. I've tried just about everything and curly or not it always turns into a big mess. Does anyone know what would keep my hair from puffing?
Anything will help,
MG
i use a relaxer for my hair every 2 or 3 months. im black and asian so my hair is also curly. since you are half black and half white i would suggest getting a relaxer that is not so strong so it wont completely damage your hair. people say that if you already have good hair you really shouldnt even try putting a relaxer in, but it really does make your hair straighter and easier to work with.
or you can try going to a beauty store where they will wash and style your hair. i go to a local beauty store sometimes and it costs me about $15 in total to get my hair washed, cut, and straightened. plus these people are trained so they do less damage to your hair when they straighten it.
hope i could help :]
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well i've done everything but sex and when my boyfriend does anything to me i reach a point where i cant handle it anymore and i tell him to stop, i dont orgasm but then like a few hours later i will. sometimes when he fingers me i randomly do but it doesnt even feel good or anything, i think i have a medical problem but i dont know what to do!! help please
well you wont be able to help him out with you getting an orgasm if you dont know where your hot spots are at. it may sound really funny but try experiencing with yourself and learn what turns you on what doesn't. this way you can guide him to what you like. not only will it be beneficial to you but sometimes guys get turned on by the fact that they can please their girl.
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15/f
is there anything you can do to make your hair grow? my hair will not grow, it's been the same length for months. i'm a vegetarian and ever since i became one a year and a half ago my hair turned to crap. it got thin and damaged really easily. anything i can do?
i agree with more protein like the others.
but also if you straighten your hair or use lots of products on it at once that also damages your hair.
although it may sound gross, try washing your hair less because washing it so much is not very good for it. also try to find a shampoo that doesn't have so much acid in it. ive heard that shampoo products contain acid but some are better than others. let your hair air dry if you usually blow dry it and try straightening it less.
hope i could help.
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