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orgasm late
well i've done everything but sex and when my boyfriend does anything to me i reach a point where i cant handle it anymore and i tell him to stop, i dont orgasm but then like a few hours later i will. sometimes when he fingers me i randomly do but it doesnt even feel good or anything, i think i have a medical problem but i dont know what to do!! help please
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well you wont be able to help him out with you getting an orgasm if you dont know where your hot spots are at. it may sound really funny but try experiencing with yourself and learn what turns you on what doesn't. this way you can guide him to what you like. not only will it be beneficial to you but sometimes guys get turned on by the fact that they can please their girl.
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okay well, maybe you should let him keep going when you 'reach a point where you can't handle it anymore' because that is like what an orgasm is. like once you reach that point. this is really hard to explain but when it builds up like that it doesn't just like go away. for example: if your boyfriend fingers you and then stops for a few minutes and then starts again you don't have to start over in like building up to an orgasm. if that makes any sense? so that could explain why it happens a few hours later. because after he fingers you or whatever you are that much built up to having an orgasm and then some stimulation like a few hours later creates the orgasm. if you are really worried talk to your doctor about it. it may be embarrassing but it's definetly better to catch problems like this early.
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Why can't you "handle" it? would be helpful.
But from what i have to go on here i goes.
You might not be orgasming because he either isn't good/hitting the right spots.
It is normal for a girl not to orgasm all the time, some girls it takes a long time to achieve an orgasm, or the you need a special spot stimulated or you get nothing.
Just try to explore all the different things with him, and even by yourself.
Try masturbating and see what you like.
Hope it helps
~InsaneChildz~
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