Hi everyone (:! I'm Angela, or Angie; whichever you choose to use! I'm basically just here to help people the best I can with whatever they choose to ask me, and maybe even get a little help in return! I may only be sixteen, but I have a LOT of knowledge and experience about the world, that I'm planning on using to help others, and to improve for myself! I'm pretty much up for anything, I support pretty much everything, as long as your not hurting yourself or anyone else...so give me a shot; I'm all ears!!!!
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i feel like everyone in my life is moving on except me and its bringing me down lately, i know i shouldnt but im letting it get to me. i dont see half of the friends i used to even though i try and stay in touch with them. is anyone else going through this and how should i deal with it ?? (link)
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my exact problem. ever since i graduated, i feel like i died. i'll be honest, it sucks. especailly when you love the people in your life so much and would do anything to keep them there. but, guess what? you cant control other people. only yourself and how you react to other people. i say go out and do things that dont rely on others, do things that will improve YOUR life.. even if its just making sure ALL your homeworks done or your eating healthy. i know those may sound stupid and weird, but, trust me, you'll feel a sense of accomplishment that you got WITHOUT other people.
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okay so my skin is like, really pale. im tan, just its like my skin isnt bright or healthy looking like every body else's skin. i mean, my make-up looks good and everything when i put it on, but if you look really close to my skin around my nose and cheeks, its kind of speckly and stuff. should i just wash my face a lot and eat healthy? what should i do? (link)
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wait.. you just said that your skin is really pal. but then you said that your tan!? ha hmm.. well, as far as getting a tan, try going to a level 3 bed ... they have wayyy less rays that will burn your "really pal" skin, and more that will TAN it. these level 3 beds are also way more safe as far as getting skin cancer, and take a lot less time to get tan. and as far as your skin being "speckly" ... try some NON-scented moisterizer.
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15/f about 105lbs. i want to gain about 10-15lbs because my arms are extremely twig like. my lower body is fine but i could still use a little more meat on my legs. are there any weight gaining bars or drinks that really work. no organic stuff that im going to have to import from half way across the world just some things you can find in a supermarket. (link)
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..finally someone with the same problem as me: GAINING weight, not losing it. (: i take something called "muscle and weight gainer" .. its a shake, that you mix with whole milk, and you drink about 1-2 times, a day. theres two different flavors to choose from: vanilla, aor chocolate. i got mine from vitamin world. try it, they're good.. and they work. (: ps. im even littler than you, and .. you say your 105 right now? and 15 years old? yeah well.. 105 is MY goal. ha. and im almost 17.
hope i helped. (;
please tell me if i helped you; rate me honestly; i'd appreciate it. thnx_ang*
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I'm a teenager who is single and completely miserable and hating it. I can't get a boyfriend because i'm so overweight. Everyone is automatically unattracted to me because I'm so fat. No one wants to date a fatass like me.
I want to commit sucide, but I don't want to have the pain. And I'd be afraid to anyway. So what should I do?
I've seen several therapists and counselors about my depression but they don't help. (link)
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hmm.. im really sorry taht your going through this kind of pain.. i'll try to help you the best that i can...
you say you've been to therapists, but have you tried any medication for your depression?? (judging form what you said here, im pretty sure you do, indeed have, clinical depression)
lithium&zoloft are two medications that can really help you out. there's a lot more, too (depending on your symptoms).
some ways, other than medication, can really, truly help, i promise!!! i've had depression too, and these really did help.
1. GET SOME EXERCISE!!
sakiting
swiming
walking
yoga
2. TAKE A BREAK!!
napping
hottubing (my favorite, i have one.)
read a book for fun
listen to relaxing music (no sad songs!)
3. HAVE SOME FUN!!
joing a club
read stuff that makes you laugh
start an art project
spend more time with family or friends
4. EAT GOOD FOOD!!
have breakfast every day
take a multivitimin
avoid caffeine- (it can make you anxious or nervous)
noooo alcohol or drugs
5. TALK ABOUT IT
write down your feelings
cry if you feel sad
call or visit someone
make a list of important numbers that you can call if you ever feel really really sad...
depression.com
NAMI-1800-950-6264
(depression hotline&website)
6. STICK WITH IT!!
use a calendar to record when you have therapy
remember your medication (if you are taking any)
make a mood chart...(every day, rate your mood from 1-10 and why)
7.FEED YOUR SPIRIT!!
use a journal
write a song
write poetry
go to the beach
collect something
go to a support group
make a craft
hope i helped (;
please tell me if i helped you; rate me honestly; i'd appreciate it. thnx_ang*
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I need to know the different between clinical depression, anxiety, and severe stress. How can you tell if you really have a mental problem or if you're just really emotional? I know only a doctor can make the diagnosis, but I need to know so I don't have to waste my time going there if I'm feelings these things for no reason. (link)
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... usually, when people are upset, they are just upset for... MAYBE.. a couple days; at the most, a week. if the more than three of the following apply to you:
anxiety
hopelessness
too much/ too little sleep
sudden weight loss/gain
thoughts about death/suicide
hurting yourself
moods fluctuate extremely/quickly
loss of interests
socialy excluding yourself
in the past two weeks, for at least two weeks, then you probably have dpression. CLINICAL, that is. its completely fine. talk to your doctor, theres medication for it, such as lithium, zoloft, and many more.
you can go to depression.com
you can call NAMI- 1800-950-6264
hope i helped (;
please tell me if i helped you; rate me honestly; i'd appreciate it. thnx_ang*
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respond asap please!!!
as some of you know, school starts again tomorrow and well I was just in my closet choosing what to wear. I went to florida for about 5 days and I got a really nice tan. So what are some colors (shirts) to bring out a tan? Blue??? Red?? I don't know but that's why i'm asking you guys.
thanks! HAPPY EASTER! (link)
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ahh! good question. hot pink (BEST), yellow, orange, bright green...
basically all the bright, warm colors!!
stay away from: white, black, blue, &red.
hope i helped (;
please tell me if i helped you; rate me honestly; i'd appreciate it. thnx_ang*
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I have a really reeeeeeeeeeally important audition on thursday and i have to prepare 2 two-minute contrasting monologues.
How am i going to accomplish this in 2 days?
I'm a teenage girl.
can anyone reccomend monologues for me? (link)
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...check out Hamlet, and Macbeth; there's a ton of them in there.
hope i helped. ;)
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Okay, so I am fifteen and I am about to turn sixteen towards the end of the month. I am just wondering, what is it about turning sixteen that girls are really excited about? You know, like, they throw really huge parties and stuff like that.... Please do explain to me what turning sixteen signifies.
Thanks! (link)
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well, most people really look forward to turning sixteen because well.. they can drive!!! i know it might not sound like much, but, driving on your own really can symbolize a feeling of freedom; not always depending on other people, (parents, most likely), for something that we use daily-transportation. my sixteenth birthday was really really fun. i actually ended up getting over a thousand dollars worth of stuff for that birthday.. more than any other birthday before. dont feel pressured to have this amazing, expensive party though... sweet sixteens are just something that a lot of people like to celebrate a little more than the other birthdays; just a thing for fun, basically. !
hope i helped. ;)
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Ok so i brush my teeth for 2 minutes to 2:£0 every day. use mouthwash twice a day and brush about 3. I also have whitening tooth polish that i brush on before going to bed..Then why aren't my teeth going any whiter?
I've tried so many things it's kinda annoying.
please help.. (link)
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crest white strips are amazing.. they're usually about 50 dollars a box, though. i tried them. give them about two weeks, and they should really be working! if not, then try talking to your dentist.. for some professional advice on this topic.
hope i helped. ;)
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im 13/f im the youngest in my family my parents are downstairs now dressed as easter bunnys filling the baskets umm is that normal or should i be scared how do i get them to not dress up for evey holiday (link)
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awhh.. thats so cute!! haha. im sorry. i know you probably didnt want to hear that . but i mena like yeah.. 13 and older is a little old for that kind of parential entertainment.. ha. well, i really think that you should just sit your parents down and and GENTLY, NICELY, explian to them that you really do feel too old for them to be going to those extremes to entertain you. see what they say, but it seems obvious that they really just like babying you and your siblings, (if you have any) and they really jsut want to make you happy. so, maybe if you confirm that if they stop the dressing up, that THAT will actually make you happy, they'll have more of a chance to not do it anymore!
hope i helped. (;
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Heyy, I've asked a question according to my story already, but I need a bit more info..
I was just wondering what kind of drugs cause the HIV/AIDS virus? I know they're drugs which use needles.. but I'm not sure which ones they are.. I just need gneral information on them. Where people would get those, and also what the side effects of AIDS/HIV are before treatment.
Another 'also', What kind of treatments do you get for this, and how long would you be able to life at the age of about 18 when you got it?
Any information or sites, really would be great!!
Thanks. =) (link)
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...you've asked a lot of questions here. i'll answer what i know.
shooting up shared herione, sharing drug works, sharing tattoo equipment, sharing ANY skin-piercing equipment, or unprotected sex are all things that can get you infected with the AIDS illness.
side effects include: being uncommonly tired, feeling as though something as little as a cold is really bad, having an injury go unhealed, for a REDICULOUS amount of time. (AFTER treating it properly).
most people die within tow years of their HIV having advanced to an AIDS diagnosis. this illness is usually still considered HIV for about 3-6 years.
any additional information, can be answered here:
National AIDS Clearing House 1800-458-5231
National AIDS Hotline 1800-342-2437
hope i helped. (;
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My fiance has had premarital sex, and i haven't. so i dont want to do anything sexual with him, until he has had tests and stuff. but we have kissed, and yesterday someone was telling me that it is possible to get aids from someone by just kissing them, is that true? (link)
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no, it is NOT possible to get aids from someone byt just kissing them...unless one of/both of you have some sort of OPEN WOUND in your MOUTH.
for any questions about AIDS, call the National AIDS Hotline, at 1800-342-2437
hope i helped. (;
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okay my family is pushing me to the limit i run away get the cops called on me and i might start cutting i don't want to but it is so hard not to what do i do? (link)
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i really think that at first, you shoudl identify the problems that your family is doing to make you so upset. after you identify exaclty what is bothering you, i think you should reallytalk to them about it. family counseling may seem corny but, when people are cooperative, can really work (i've done it several times) try to work out compomises with your family; example: if you do X amount of work around the house, you will get X amount of money for your work, or if you get X amout of good grades, you can get X amount of extra privledges. honestly, words can solve a world of problems: TALK, there's really nothing you can lose.
hope i helped. (;
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Is there any way that you can not want to be a lesbian but you still are? I try not to be. I try to be with guys but I just don't feel right when I kiss a guy, but when I kiss a girl it feels so right. I don't want to be a lesbian just because it's so hard to these days and I don't want to have to tell my parents. Also I'm Christian so it's against my religion. Is there anyway to make myself straight? (link)
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i dont know if this will answer your question...
but im going to give it my best shot.
honestly, i see that you are extremely unconfortable with really letting yourself out, yet you seem pretty set on the idea that you are, in fact, gay. im sorry, and no offense to ANYONE, but i know that people say that being homosexual is totally out there, and also a sin, but i, under NOOOO circumstances, believe that. God loves everyone, and yes, he DOES support love. i dont care what others have to say about that. im extremely close to God and have a LOT of gay friends. does that make me "a sinner" absolutley not. as long as your not huring anyone, or yourself, hun, im sorry, but i really dont feel the nesessity of telling you how to be STRAIGHT. you are who you are, and you should embrace that with everything you have. and as far as "its so hard to be a lesbian these days" ...?? NOT TRUE AT ALL!!!!! these days, its accepted more than EVER before!!! it was once actually, considerd a mental illness, but is NOT anymore. any where you go on the tv, there's specails about gays... like.. for instance.. on The Simple Life, they had to plan a lesbian marriage. or on A Baby Story, they had a specail: "Two Moms". my gosh, all OVER, there are stuff.. in magazines, (seventeen, cosmogirl!) there are stuff about gays, that support them, and much much more. i know a lot of Christains who are gay. it does NOT mean that you are against Jesus....
professional help???
there are tons of organizations set for people just like you. search on google, with the key words: "lesbian/gay support groups&websites".. garentee you won't find yourself empty-handed.
hope i helped. (;
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Making a flash box with pictures for my friends birthday.
Just wondering if anyone had any suggestions for a good "friendship" song.
Much appreciated.
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I turn to you- Christina Aguiliara
Your my best friend-Tim Mcgraw
...Look up Vitamin C... for a song that MIGHT be called, "all the times we had together"
hope i helped. (;
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22/f
I was just wondering if anyone can reccommend me some good Erotic novels that my boyfriend and I can read to each other. Thanks! (link)
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...wellllll.. im not sure if a guy would like this kind of stuff.. they're all dramas, but these are my ALTIME, absolute FAVORITE books...
A Time For Dancing
The Lovely Bones
The Try Confessions of Charlotte Doyle
It Happened to Nancy
...and
Night
Try them, they really are worth reading!!!!!!
hope i helped. (;
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im 13 and i havent kissed anyone yet.now that im going out with my b/f im a bit worried encase i do it wrong.if my b/f knew i was worrying about kissing him he would just say theres nothing to worry about.i really dont want to do it wrong.if you can give me any advice please give it. xxaoifexxx (link)
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awh.. first kisses are so cute!!!! theres really no specific way TO kiss, but, my advice is to just relax...and most of all make sure you're really ready-first kisses are big!! but the important thing to remember is WHO it was with; not how well you did it!!!
hope i helped. (;
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the singer is hellogoodbye and the song is touchdown turnaround how do u find that song on myspace because i wanna add it and hellogoodbye doesent have it on there thing on myspace (link)
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...i absolutley love that song!!! hah sorry i thought that i would just mention that me and my best friend were just crazily dancing to it today... but anyway, yeah- i do know that they actually, jsut recently took that off of thier page, but, if you go to myspace.com, click on music, type in hellogoodbye, and thier OFFICIAL site does not have it, try the other sites that are named hellogoodbye too... supporter sites like that often have the band's songs that the original does not.
hope i helped. (;
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how do you put eyeliner (preferably pencil black eyeliner) on the inner part of your top eye lid??
it's like inside your top eye lid.
won't it smear against your eye?? i'm confused!
please help!
if you can, please show pictures! (link)
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liquid eyeliner is the absolute best for going on your top lid. try maybeline-they have all sorts of colors- (and yes, black!) ...liquid eyeliner is amazing for this particular part of your eye because it doesn't smear-or hurt.
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ok, i am confused a little, i know im not lesbian, but i find girls making out very hot! and arousing, i have made out with a girl, ive actually had full on lesbian sex witha girl but i HATED eating her, but loved being eaten... i find myself wanting to make out with girls but i want and love sex with guys.... am i bisexual? (link)
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well, you seem to be PHYSICALLY attracted to both genders so...sounds like it!!! its great that you can be comfortable enough with yourself to say all of that. look at this part of you as sort of a fun thing: your open to anyone, basically!!! some people might look at you different, may even judge you pesimestically, but to me, it sounds like you really could care less; which is an amazing attitude. keep up the good work!!!!
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