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haveing trouble, about to loose it
I met a guy on vacation and we both really love each other n he asked me out I said yes. But I really dono, I love him, but it turned into a long distance relationship and so far I just cant take it. Were total opposites but we both love each other but if I am gona keep getting broken by it and never be able to see him only talk, what is the use. Even last night, he wouldn’t talk to me so him n my bff could text, then talking about each other non stop to me wtf. But then he asked if it was ok if he added her to his myspace an if its ok that he would not call me n I just texted “I guess, bye” “ok well have fun ima proly just go to sleep now bye I love u, night”. They both know I had an extremely bad day and that im bipolar and just having trouble. I can’t even explain it to my other friend, but I finally told her about my depression an bipolar an what had been going on w me, n told her I was done with life done with whatever it is im trying to live through. What can I do its down to stupid stuff like this that bothers me enough to cry hard for 3 hours. when i said im about to loose it, i just lost it.
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Well, being bi-polar doesn't mean you have to be mean to everyone around you. I learned that the hard way. But it is really messed up of him to be talking to your friend like that. I'd be pretty angry myself. If I was you, I would sit down with my best friend & let her know that it was such a bitchy thing to do talking to your boyfriend like that whether he lived near you or not. Second, I would talk to your boyfriend. Let him know that with ya'lls relationship being long distance, that it's hard on you. I've been in one long distance relationship. They usually don't work out. There is the whole trust issue & what not. But if the love is strong enough, some people can make them work. It sounds like you need to pick a better friend, that wouldn't try to steal your boyfriend. ♥
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I know alot about bipolar disorder. I know a woman who is actually very bipolar. some advice i can first give you is sont use it as an excuse in your life. The fact that you are bipolar is no reason or excuse to be able to act out or treat people badly. If you are feeling like you are done with life than i thnk you should immediately contact a suicide hotline or somehting like that. These are two very seperate issues. Your bf issue and being bipolar. Separate these and work on them individually
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i have had many bipolar friends. my mother is. i have delt with it all my life. to help this, you need things to be as stable as possible iny our life. long distance relationships are stressful and there are ups and downs. days full of doubt and hopelessness because you dont see it going anywhere and days where they make you so happy you can hardly contain telling them every second you love them... weither you see the bi polar thing as a big deal here.. it is. i dontknow ifyour medicated.. but even if you aare.. you need things in your life you can balance better.. a physical relationship will do so much better for you. im not sure how old you guys are but it could be months or years before you guys could see eachother again or have a real date.. you as a person need more than that from a relationship. so get out of it. because the ups and downs of that kind of relationship is not good for you. it will save fights with family, friends, him, and depression bought on by yourself thinking about all of that.
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