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Toying around with me.
VERY VERY LONG. but you had to know that whole story.
ok so i went out with this guy. lets call him, jake. ok so i was crushing on jake. really hard. i mean like talking about how much i liked him. then he asked me out and i thought it was a dream.(this happened back in febuary) he asked me out on valinetins day. and im not big on that day. i dont like the 14th of febuary, until that moment. i had to pinch myself to see if it was real. but the problem was, im a mixed, select soccer playing, "beautiful" girl. as most people would say. but under that, i love emo, skater, and that kind of stuff. and thats what he was like. he is an artist, anda skater. and i liked him soooo much. then the next day i went to a dance. and the kind i went to wasnt his kind of dance. (everyone said he wasnt very good look but hew is soo sweet) and when i went there, there was a guy that 5 months before my friends said i had to ask him to go on a ride at the local fair. and i did. well later that night, i saw him and we made eye contact and i guess i got caught in the moment because i almost kissed him and i was like no this isnt righti have a boyfriend. and everyones like come on it is that bad. but it was my first kiss. and i walked away. then later it happened again and i kissed him that time. and i felt sooo bad. and i was scared someone was going to tell "jake" so i broke up with him a few days later. so he wouldnt hate me. then we were texting a that same day and he told me he liked me alot and how i broke his heart. but he didnt know how bad i was hurting. so we became friends. and now i like him. Alot. again. so we were texting the other night and it was 2 or 3 am. and he asked me out of now where all these questions about if we were going out. and i thought we was going to ask me out. but he didnt. then i asked him the next day and he said he has sleeping pills. and it crushed me and i said like ok then he said ya. i was like ya.... and he was like yyaaaa..... so now i want to know what all this means. does he like me, just toying with me, or what?
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I think he may still like you and is just hurting.
Boys are famous for being hurt and acting like they don't care, because they try really hard to push things away and forget about them because it's not masculine to show a "softer side" or emotions.
(Don't get me wrong, some of them are just jerks that will mess with your head.)
But I think if you both are still friends that he wouldn't waste his time toying with you if that's all it was.
If you haven't already told him how you feel, maybe you should and see what happens?
If it doesn't turn out the way you plan though don't be upset. Just know that there will be other "jakes" out there.
But remember to give him time, if you hurt him as much as it seems it won't just go away. Stay friends with him and talk to him. It can't hurt anything.
But if you feel like it's going no where or if you really feel like he is toying with you, try to not let yourself be around people like that.
Hope this helps.
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alright girl, personally dont waste your time with jake. i truly dont think you like him THAT much since you were able to make that type of connection with that boy you went on a ride with at the fair, and ended up kissing him the 2nd time it happened.. if you reallllly liked jake it wouldn't of be that easy to happen. you really need to think about your feelings here..
stay single for awhile.. if jake talks to you and you insist that you like him that much then take the time to REALLY talk to him when hes not on his meds, or in any other state of mind. okay?
theres plenty of boys out there girl friend (:
hope i helped.. sorry if i was being too honest, but sometimes we think we really like someone, yet truth is we dont and we try so hard to make something work that just cant.
anything else ask away (:
take care!
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