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did i blow it??
18/female. a little background info you should probably know: me and joe have known each other for about 4 years now and i've always had the biggest crush on him but haven't straight out told him, and he's felt me up before but nothing serious. so last night we were talking and this was the last part of our convo:
me: thanks ... you hurt my feelings (kidding around)
joe: sorry. i can pay ya back
me: yes you will ... what are you gonna give me??
joe: what do you want
me: hmmm whatever you want
joe: lol like?
me: oh please you know what i like
joe: sex
me: haha well...yea but i dont think i like it as much as you do
joe: why
me: well i guess i really dont know that do i. but since you just think im a TEASE guess you'll never find out will ya;)
and he never texted back:( the last thing i said i was trying to be flirty. me and joe are both attractive to each other and obviously i'd have sex with him in a second, he's absolutely adorable, hes the only guy i trust, we're actually really close friends but he just didn't seem as into it as he usually is. sometimes when we're talking about things like sexual he will be like wanna have sex? haha and sooo like i thought he would be all into it. maybe he didn't know what to say back? maybe he fell asleep because it was like 2:30 in the morning? but he never texted back today. did the last thing i say make it sound like i didn't want him?? i'm freaking out...
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I agree with the other advice- giver: Chill Out! :)
It'll blow over don't worry you like him and thats fine it tends to make people think about what they have done. Did I say something? What should I do? Relax if he's your friend then you should have no problem just sitting down and talking with him. The other thing is don't play as the "tease" I've heard from some guys I knwo that its not really a turn on or anything. Just play it cool hang out a little and see where it goes. Good Luck! Happy Holidays!
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Chill :)
your only freaking out because you like him and dont want him to be mad or anything.
simply text him and be like 'hey you never text back the other night lol'
You guys are obviously close so that wont be weird or anything to him.
If he doesnt text back to THAT immediately, dont freak out he may be busy.
That could also lead to a conversation maybe to something good :)
godd luck
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