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i don't know what to do...
Hey. well, the last night i was talking to my boyfriend on the phone and we decided to hang out tomorrow (November 14th.) and he asked me to go uptown with him, and then back to his house.
I really, really want to becuase I really like him alot. The thing is, i'm not gunna lie, i have no experience.
Chances are going to his house will lead to stuff like him fingering me adn stuff.
I know this is really embarassing and gross and stuff but like i don't know what to do while he does it.
i mean like, is he gunna leave my pants on and just go down them, or take them completely off? and when he's fingering me do i look at him?! or do i like makeout with him while he's doing it?!
i need help becuase i really like him and want this to go smoothly, i don';t want to embarass myself. please help, i do rate.
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i hope this gets to you in time! no dont look at him! what is she telling you oh my gee...that could be awkward...pants dont always come completely off, and probably wont. sometimes you can make out with him depends how hes positioned. thats all i need to tell you. but dont just be like blah, he wants to feel like your enjoying it. it didnt hurt the first time i got fingered, but it might if your not wet. lube can fix that if its available
good luck xxx
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Hey. I think I can help you with this one.
If you really like him, then you obvioulsy have no problem with moving forward. Just please bofre you do anything, make sure that you're comfortable and ready to take that next step with him.
If it gets to the point he he does finger you, if your along he'll probably start by just going down them a little. Eventually he'll probably pull them all the way down and he'll do it that way. (It's easier for both of you).
Fingering DOES hurt at first. It's nothing to be scared of. Eventually it will start to hurt less and feel better.
As for ig you should look at him, he probably won't be look back at you. He'll be focased on other things. If he's true to you he'll look up and make sure that you're ok. If he's close enough you should makeout with him. Also, to let him know that it feels good when it does, grab his face and makeout with him because then he knows how you like it.
Also remember to no let him pressure you into doing anything that you may not want to do. If you're really not ready for him to do that, tell him. Also, if he feels that becuase he did this for you, you should repay him, you might want to rethnik your feelings for him. Make sure he's into you and not into what you can do for him.
I hope I could help
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