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being fake
my guy friend has a girlfriend. and i hate her with every bit of feeling i have left in my gut. as much as i would love to curse her out, pull her hair and yell at her, telling how much i hate her and how she's taking him away from me and how she's a fake b****, i don't. instead, i try to, as convincingly as possible, be nice. it's fake. but if i say something to her, he himself will hate me.
am i doing the right thing?
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YES, BUT I THINK MAYBE YOU HAVE MORE THAN FRIENDLY FEELINGS FOR YOUR GUYFRIEND...
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You're doing the right thing, in a sense. From containing yourself from strangling her throat, yes. =] Being humane and civilized is good enough, lol. But you shouldn't fake how you feel about her either. Isn't everyone who always says, "Be yourself//Dont be afraid to say how you feel about something"? Your friend has to accept the fact that you DON'T LIKE HIS GIRLFRIEND. As long as you're not all, "Break up with the bitch or we're not friends" to him, he shouldn't hate either. Just as you at least RESPECT his girlfriend, he should respect your thoughts.
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i know you hate her but thats not good. if youre guy friend is happy with her then dont ruin it for him. maybe hes happy. besides he needs his friends and if you curse her out maybe hell be mad at you. so i would advise you to get to know her. maybe shes nice. but you havent noticed. maybe youre being protective over him and dont want him to get hurt. Or maybe you have feelings for him and your afraid she might take him away from you and his friendship. talk to him and find out whats really bugging you. but dont do anything to her. you might regret it and the price of that would be youre friendship.
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yes you are. you're not suppose to hate people, but you're doing the right thing.hope this helps
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ok how is she fake?fake as in slutty and using him?if so,then you need to talk to him about him just ONE LAST TIME cuz you probably did alot before...tell him that your worried that she might hurt him and that your sad that hes been different with you ever since he got with her.But no,dont go up to her and beat her up cuz in the end,she is none of your buissness....you beating her up will make your freind here only get mad at you and YOU will be the bad one infront of your guy freind even if she is wrong.
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I think it is nice of you. It shows you are trying to deal with her, and you can control yourself. They probably will not be together forever, so just think- they will probably be over soon:]
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yes you are. thats really good that you are able to contain yourself like that and manage to be polite to the person that you hate. and i admire you for that. you dont want to blow up at her because then shes just going to tell him crap that you were mean to her and stuff just to make him think that YOUR the bad guy. so keeo your cool because more than likey shes TRYing to tick you off. do you know of any reasons why she would do that?...think about that...and remeber dont blow up in front of him because thats not cool.
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If he cant deal with the fact that you dont like her, and if you ever get into a fight with, and he starts to hate you, hes not a real friend. -.-
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