Hey everyone i my name is sarah and my friends always come to me for advice on anything i think that i give good sensible advice because i have a great deal of commen sense. Talk to me any time and i can either just give you my best advice i can from personal experiances or just help you figure something out that will work for you. so what are you wating for?! ask me!
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I am 14,130lbs and 5ft8-9in i have alot of strech marks on my lowerback and inside of my legs and on my upper-upper back. what can i do to get rid of them? (and just curious how'd they get there?) (link)
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i agree with her...go to the drugstore and get the yellow stick of coco butter. it works like a charm.. i have them too on the inside of my thighs and they have been going away becuz i use coco butter everyday. and it doesnt matter if your fat or small, your just growing.
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my guy friend has a girlfriend. and i hate her with every bit of feeling i have left in my gut. as much as i would love to curse her out, pull her hair and yell at her, telling how much i hate her and how she's taking him away from me and how she's a fake b****, i don't. instead, i try to, as convincingly as possible, be nice. it's fake. but if i say something to her, he himself will hate me.
am i doing the right thing? (link)
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yes you are. thats really good that you are able to contain yourself like that and manage to be polite to the person that you hate. and i admire you for that. you dont want to blow up at her because then shes just going to tell him crap that you were mean to her and stuff just to make him think that YOUR the bad guy. so keeo your cool because more than likey shes TRYing to tick you off. do you know of any reasons why she would do that?...think about that...and remeber dont blow up in front of him because thats not cool.
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15/f. so there's this boy that i really like and one of my friends told him i liked him by mistake and he didn't say anything. but he told my other friend he liked me. we always talk on myspace but he never tells me wat he feels. wat should i do to find out if he likes me or not. (link)
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you need to take this upon yourself now because more than likely scared to death to confront you about how he feels. so you should just talk to him and ask him about "the both of you" he will have a huge load taken off his chest and feel relieved that you talk to him.
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hey! well, i'm 14/f. and i really need a new hairstyle. it goes about 3 to 4 inches past my shoulders. i'm thinking about growing it out past my chest area. lol. cause i see a lot of celbritys (don't know how to spell, lol) that have long hair, even if some of them do have extentions. for example, ashley tisdale, miley cyrus, lauren conrad (laguna beach, the hills) and audrina patridge (the hills) and yeah, just people like that. i have layers and side bangs. i tried bangs across my forehead like ashlee simpson used to have. but those didn't look to great on me. so should i just grow it out. and then do different stuff like curls and stuff? thanks! (link)
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well i cant help you MUCH becuz i havent seen your hair but definently go to this site>>>www.bosshairstyles.com
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okay im 16/f and im really skinny. and everyone at my school and even my mom makes fun of me how skinny i am. and i really want to put on weight. im 5'4 and i weigh only 89 pounds. i have really skinny legs and arms. so how should i make my arms & legs look more healthier and how should i put on weight so that i look healthy and not like an anorexic? (link)
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well dont just eat alot because that could be unhealthy. u should definently work out. muscle weighs more that fat and its easier to gain than fat when your in your kind of situation. it will make your arms and legs look really fit and healthy and well rounded. make sure you eat alot a healthy foods, but try to eat as much of it as you can.
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I need a long love quote, but i don't know what site to go on. Anyone know a good site that has love quotes? (link)
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go on hot-lyts.com its a rele good site to find long quotes.
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ive recently had a pretty bad outbreak of chest acne like in the past week and ive never really had that much before. i have no idea why. ive been scrubbing it but it doesnt seem to be doing much. what can i do? (link)
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well dont pick at it its only going to get worse and spread. and also dont use a variety of different products because it could cause allergic reactions. so ask your mom or whoever your living with to call and make an appointment with a dermatologist. see what he/she says. but be sure to ask about "differen" ive used it before and it works like a charm all you have to do is rub the gel on your chest and in about a week you start seeing differences. (trying not to sound like a commercial) haha, but if you need to go to last resort try to find the cause of it.like are you nervous about something? are you under alot of pressure? but anyways just look into that.
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Okay. I like this boy his name is Eric, and he doesn't like the fact that I've gone on a diet. I assure you.. It's a healthy diet I eat, exersize and not once has my finger been remotly close to my mouth for the purpose of vomitting. I have a condition, Acanthosis Nigricans(thinking I spelled it correctly..) which is a discoloration to the neck. Well if I keep doing what Im doing which was eating all the time, never exersizing, Im sure to get Diabetes. Which it me is a death sentance because Im Insulin Resistant. I would die. I dont want to tell him because I dont want to worry him but im getting tired of him saying I should eat something when I ate likea halfn hour ago. Im 14 im not saposed to eat all the time and he doesnt understand.
I dont want him to worry but I dont want him to accuse me of not eating when I do it right infront of him.
How do I explain things to him without sending him into panic? (link)
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well first of all you should assure him that your diet is not for the purpose of wanting to lose weight. and just say that you have to do this because of a health condition, nothing more, he should then get the hint and back off and stop bothering you about it. after all its not his body its yours.
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14/f
so jonathan likes me and i like jonathan. we're kinda like, "talking"..but not going out yet. we've been talking for about 1 month.
[yesterday morning] So i was mad at him for something stupid, but then i got over it. he apologized and i accepted it.
[yesterday night-->]so usually we talk on myspace practically every day. and my friend breanna and him are friends. and she told me that he was going to ask me out but, then i got mad so ..he "forgot"...[yea..right] but that's not what bothered me. well if you have a myspace you'll usually see bulletins like..if you're single,taken and happy,..stuff like that. so he posted one saying he's TAKEN AND LOVING IT!!...and then he posted another saying the same thing..
AND YESTERDAY HE WANTED ME TO CALL HIM..he made it sound URGENT..and i'm so nervous.
and you know how Tom added that new view status updates...and his said "it only took 2 minutes (if you know what i mean)
I was just so mad and upset last night and this morning.
once again, i'm sorry it's long and thanks for answering.
so basically..
1) did he want me to call him because he was going to ask me out??!!
2) what did he mean by, "it only took 2 minutes,(if you know what i mean)
3) Does he really have a girlfriend??!!..because some of my friends think it's me..but he never asked me out??!!!
please just answer these questions and tell me honestly what you think. (link)
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well honestly noone can answer those questions because noone will no what he was thinking and what hes thinking right now besides him. hes probably completley nervous because hes got a great girl in front of him and he doesnt want to screw anything up, but unfortunatley for him he already is. so what you need to do is take it upon yourself to talk to him about how you "feel". and what you think. just ask him nicley what hes thinking because your ready to have a relationship. that will take a huge weight off his shoulders and feel so much comfotable with you than so uptight.
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so this guy likes me and hes in the 8th grade. and im going into 10th. we talk every day and have so much in common but hes two years younger than me and lives 2 hours away.And i would go out w/ him but hes younger than me. and i dont want to tell him thats the reason y i dont want to go out.and i also dont want to lose him as a friend. what should i do? (link)
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simply tell him that you would really like to take things slow. If he really likes you then he will understand and not pressure a relationship.
but tell him how good a friend he is and that you really enjoy his company. He would like to know that you think that about him even though you dont want a relationship right now. and as for not going out with him becuz of age difference...well you never know what might become of that realtionship do you? i know im not physcic. are you? so whynot take a crazy chance if you really like him? nhe might turn out more mature and more your type than a guy your own age!
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Hey Dudes & Dudettes ,
Is it possible to go out with your ex again ? After you like dated 3 times already..?? Because everyone tells me that me and my ex are so cute together and that hes the perfect guy for me.. and I was wondering because I still REALLY like him.. is there any ways to get him back ? Please help.
Thank you so much.
Betty. (link)
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of course its possible, ive gone out with my ex about 7 times. i know "wow". If you really like him still then you need to let him know. and if your too timid to do that then drop hints and he'll have the courage to ask you about what would happen if you guys went out again. then you can vent easily and he will speak whats on his mind!
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On my first day of highschool I'm probly just gonna bring folder, notebook, pen & pencil, but I need a purse or small bad type thing to carry around. Do girls carry purses or bags arround? I want to, but if no one else does than i dont want to. Also, what kind of purse or bag should I bring on the 1st day? I have a big coach purse and I also have a small pink tote.
any suggestions? (link)
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have you ever seen those cloth carrying bags? they are the best for carrying around for school. they dont rip and they are more practical than bringingan actual purse to school. especially a coach purse. it could get ruined or tossed around in school so dont use it for that. if you go to target they have the kind of bags im talking about. they come in handy very much. oh and if you want a really nice one go to pac-sun.
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I love my bf rodney but recently (on the phone) if he says I have to go ill say ok but then kinda start to hate him, I dont know why I just get mad at him and sometimes I don't and sometimes I do. Is this normal, it has never happened before so can anyone please tell me why i am doing this, thnx
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You could love him so much that you get paranoid now to a point that you get mad for him saying that he cant talk or he cant be with you or you cant hear his voice. you are simply in love and you'll have to make yourself stop thinking anything negative and say thats it he has to get off the phone but he still loves me. and maybe thats it. is there something that hes not doing? is he not calling you back enough, or is he not saying i love you everytime he "has to go"? think about that and tell him how you feel.
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Recently my best friend (I'll call her Kelly) hasn't been allowed to hang out with me and our group of friends much because her mom is really strict. My boyfriend, who, as of tomorrow, I will have been with for 2 months, is in this group and always has been. I feel like my boyfriend has a crush on Kelly though. Whenever I'm with my boyfriend he will usually have his arm around me or something but when Kelly is there he won't at all (we walked probably a good 3 miles all together going somewhere and he hardly touched me). He teases her a lot too. This guy James who we all recently became friends with (BECAUSE he likes Kelly) hangs around with us a lot now and still really likes Kelly too. I love Kelly but her overwhelming cuteness is so threatening I don't know what to do. I don't want to become one of the annoying girlfriends who is always like "OMG do you like her!?" so I would rather not go to my boyfriend to ask. But should I be so concerned? I feel really worried about it. I mean all of yesterday when Kelly was there I felt really unloved but as soon as she left my boyfriend was back to how he normally is with me. Maybe I'm exaggerating. Nobody else has said anything to me but I have thought about it for a good amount of time and it seems very possible.
Sorry for rambling. I just love this boy and all I want is him to love me (and only me) too. (link)
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i hear you! ive been in that exact situation and it drove me crazy just like its doing to you. but let me tell you its ok to be annoying about this becuase you know what, i once just told myself everything was fine and then i found out from my friend that my boyfriend actually called her two times and told her that he loved her! you dont want to act oblivious to everything because that makes it easier for him to get through to your friend by hanging with you. so there is a chance that hes just staying with you to get closer to your friend. seriously this brings me back to so many alike memories and i realized it about the same time you did and i was skeptical but never did anything about it. well guess what happened, they started going out and he broke my heart especially because i loved him. but this isnt about me. all im saying is that you dont want to turn out like my situation. so gain up your courage and tell him what you feel. He might just vent to you about HE really feels and you guys can resolve your issue if he really DOES have feelings for your friend.
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I don't know if i should tell my ex-boyfriend that i still have feelings for him. He's asked me before but i never gave a straight answer. We started going together at the begining of the school year last year but broke up like a week later. By the end of the school year we started acting like we were when we first started going out. I don't kow if i should tell him how i feel about him or keep it a secret. It's just that i really like him. He's like the best person in the world and the sweetest. What should i do? (link)
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i think that you should totally just gain up your nerve and talk to him just about that. But you cant think about it too much because youll scare the crap out of yourself and never have the courage to tell him how you feel. i have had a boyfriend that i broke up with and went back out with like 7 times and i never always had a problem at the first breakup to tell him how i felt about him and that i didnt want to brake up. but then i just went mad and almost screamed that i liked him so much.....you dont want to do that haha because it makes him think your some crazy desperate girl. so just walk up to him, pull him to the side and vent. He will admire you for having the guts to tell him how youve REALLY been feeling. =D
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