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[I'M SORRY THIS IS LONG] - summer love??!!
14/f
so jonathan likes me and i like jonathan. we're kinda like, "talking"..but not going out yet. we've been talking for about 1 month.
[yesterday morning] So i was mad at him for something stupid, but then i got over it. he apologized and i accepted it.
[yesterday night-->]so usually we talk on myspace practically every day. and my friend breanna and him are friends. and she told me that he was going to ask me out but, then i got mad so ..he "forgot"...[yea..right] but that's not what bothered me. well if you have a myspace you'll usually see bulletins like..if you're single,taken and happy,..stuff like that. so he posted one saying he's TAKEN AND LOVING IT!!...and then he posted another saying the same thing..
AND YESTERDAY HE WANTED ME TO CALL HIM..he made it sound URGENT..and i'm so nervous.
and you know how Tom added that new view status updates...and his said "it only took 2 minutes (if you know what i mean)
I was just so mad and upset last night and this morning.
once again, i'm sorry it's long and thanks for answering.
so basically..
1) did he want me to call him because he was going to ask me out??!!
2) what did he mean by, "it only took 2 minutes,(if you know what i mean)
3) Does he really have a girlfriend??!!..because some of my friends think it's me..but he never asked me out??!!!
please just answer these questions and tell me honestly what you think.
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well honestly noone can answer those questions because noone will no what he was thinking and what hes thinking right now besides him. hes probably completley nervous because hes got a great girl in front of him and he doesnt want to screw anything up, but unfortunatley for him he already is. so what you need to do is take it upon yourself to talk to him about how you "feel". and what you think. just ask him nicley what hes thinking because your ready to have a relationship. that will take a huge weight off his shoulders and feel so much comfotable with you than so uptight.
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Okay first everyone i mean everyone lies on myspace and excuse me you guys are not going out you have no right to get mad at him for stupid myspace crap. Take a chill pill... I know as a fourteen year old you want a boyfriend and all your friends have one. but you have the rest of your life to date is this really going to matter in 10 years? Hes basically not worth the time.
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1. You will never know what he wants to tell you until you call him up. You'll either spend a lot of time wondering, or you'll know for sure that he just needed to borrow a pencil. lol :)
2. I think he may be showing off or bragging to his friends about something, like a girl swooning or falling head over heels for him, and it's probably a tagline for him, showing his friends that he's a player and whatnot.
3. Well, then ask him out! There's no use in wondering if he really likes you or not, when you could know for sure that he really doesn't. What happens when you had the chance to ask him out or to see if he liked you, when afterwards he finds another girlfriend, and all along he really liked you...
You need to take action ASAP! :)
-Mariah-
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1] Nobody here can tell you why he wants you to call him right away, but there's a chance that could be the reason. It could be a family emergency or something like that. None of us will know, you can only find out yourself. Call him up & ask him what it's about.
2] It, once again, could mean anything. He might be trying to impress his friends or it could be an inside joke with his friends, etc. You really won't know unless you ask him yourself.
3] There's a chance it could mean you, yeah. Sometimes guys just assume they're going out with a girl if the feelings seem mutual & they're too shy to actually ask "Will you go out with me?". If he's really been hinting that you're his girlfriend, then there's a chance you are. Call him up & ask him.
None of us can really help you with this. The only real way to find out the answers you want, is to call him up yourself & ask.
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