I love my bf rodney but recently (on the phone) if he says I have to go ill say ok but then kinda start to hate him, I dont know why I just get mad at him and sometimes I don't and sometimes I do. Is this normal, it has never happened before so can anyone please tell me why i am doing this, thnx
advicegivergirl answered Sunday July 22 2007, 8:53 pm: You could love him so much that you get paranoid now to a point that you get mad for him saying that he cant talk or he cant be with you or you cant hear his voice. you are simply in love and you'll have to make yourself stop thinking anything negative and say thats it he has to get off the phone but he still loves me. and maybe thats it. is there something that hes not doing? is he not calling you back enough, or is he not saying i love you everytime he "has to go"? think about that and tell him how you feel. [ advicegivergirl's advice column | Ask advicegivergirl A Question ]
mariahneu answered Sunday July 22 2007, 11:38 am: I think he is just getting bored with this relationship. Unless you want to lose him, I'd schedule a fun date for the both of you, like going to the movies, to a concert, to a theme park or carnival, .etc.
If you really like him, then I'd try to keep him.
If he still seems bored and uninterested, then I'd drop him. If he can't enjoy your company, then you can't enjoy his. There are plenty of other guys out there just waiting for the perfect girl, maybe this guy isn't the one you were meant to find. But, then again, all relationships require lots of hard work. That's mostly why most celebs get married and divorced a whole bunch of times, because they're to lazy to try and work things out...
sdcutie717 answered Sunday July 22 2007, 11:07 am: It sounds like you're just losing interest in the relationship. If he isn't doing anything wrong, then you have no reason to hate him other than... you don't like him as much as you once did. It may be that you are just going through a hard phase right now (which is normal, we all go through it) But if it doesn't stop, you may want to evaluate your relationship, or maybe your own personality.
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