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i really feel like dying i just want to leave this place i want to belong somewhere i just... i dont know what i want. i just know i need help because i dont think i can take this life any longer.. i really dont i mean if u were to see me somewhere you would think i was a happy person but im not i need help bad can you help me please? if u cant i understand
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awwww baby im sorry u feel like that... i know exactly what you mean, believe me. stuff gets really hard for me too, and its tough to make it through. find some good things that make you happy, like being with people who love you, or doing something you love doing, like dance or sports. think about what everyone who cares about you and loves you would do if you died...all your friends and family, your mom and dad, brothers or sisters, anyone who knew you and loved you. even though it doesnt seem like it now, there are people who love you and care for you, and it would make their life miserable if you werent here. and now that you got me involved in helping you, i care too. think of all the stuff you have to look forward to in the future, such as graduation, getting married, having kids and grandkids, and all those things in your life that you havent experienced yet, and remember to stay here for those reasons, to experience your life in its fullest. i hope you get better, and just IM me if u need anything, my sn is sexisarabeara04. much love to ya chick...
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well me and a boy like each other but he never acts like it and this other girl is all up on him but i have no clue whats with that and its sad what should i do ? should i ask the other girl stop becasue the girl doesnt kno that he likes me..if he does (link)
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well, ask the girl if she likes him. That way, you know if you have 'competition' or not. Then, ask the boy if he likes her, because then you know if you need to try to 'win him over'. Dont be a bitch to the girl that likes him if ya'll are friends because if u are then your whole friendship will get really fucked up. If the guy likes her and not you, dont get all too sad or anything because if you do then you'll be all sad and grumpy and you dont wanna be in a bad position feeling sorry for yourself because thats no fun. Remember, if he dont like you, hes not good enough for you. He dont deserve someone like you if hes gonna be like that. Hope i helped!!!
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hi sara
um...see i have a friend who i shaving a big blowout party and i wanna go really bad, but awhile back i planned this trip an it turns out to be on the same day, i really dont wanna let my friend down but i dunno wht to do
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heyyy... well i know how that feels, i had to go to a dance workshop in baton rouge the same weekend everyone was havin their big parties to. If the trip had been planned for a while, and you cant get out of it (meaning you're going to see family or something) then (sorry to tell you this...) but you're most likely gonna have to go on the trip. if its not THAT big a deal and you're just going somewhere for fun, try to ask your parents if you can get out of it. If they dont let you stay at home and go to the party, dont stress too much cuz not very many kiddos parents would let them stay at home while everyones on vacation just to go to a party (i know mine wouldnt). Hope i helped and good luck!!!
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Should I ask a girl out even if I don't know if she likes me? (link)
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well, if you feel confident enough in yourself and you're not scared of rejection, then yeah go for it!!! if you dont want her to say no or anything, find out a little more about if she likes you or not then ask when you find out more stuff! hope i helped!!!
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Hi sara, i like this person, but they haave no idea, and i want to tell them, but ...see i kind of have a crush on this other person to, but i really dont know what i should do. Can You Help Me (link)
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hey!!! Heck yes i can help you!!see, it depends on the situation. See i'm in something like that too right now. If you think the guy/girl likes you back, kind of hint out that you like them. I dont like telling them straight up that I like them, but giving them hints and things work! Who knows, maybe they like you back! Try to figure out which person you like more. When you do, make more moves toward that person. Dont get too attached because if you do, you'll end up like me and getting your heart broken a whole bunch. It hurts bad, and its not fun to go through. If you're a guy (i dont know if you are a guy or girl, sorry!!!) make the first move because girls like it a whole lot more. If you're a girl, just flirt your heart out and try to get your man!!!! hope i helped!!!
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Hi sara, i like this person, but they haave no idea, and i want to tell them, but ...see i kind of have a crush on this other person to, but i really dont know what i should do. Can You Help Me (link)
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hey!!! Heck yes i can help you!!see, it depends on the situation. See i'm in something like that too right now. If you think the guy/girl likes you back, kind of hint out that you like them. I dont like telling them straight up that I like them, but giving them hints and things work! Who knows, maybe they like you back! Try to figure out which person you like more. When you do, make more moves toward that person. Dont get too attached because if you do, you'll end up like me and getting your heart broken a whole bunch. It hurts bad, and its not fun to go through. If you're a guy (i dont know if you are a guy or girl, sorry!!!) make the first move because girls like it a whole lot more. If you're a girl, just flirt your heart out and try to get your man!!!! hope i helped!!!
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Hi sara, i like this person, but they haave no idea, and i want to tell them, but ...see i kind of have a crush on this other person to, but i really dont know what i should do. Can You Help Me (link)
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hey!!! Heck yes i can help you!!see, it depends on the situation. See i'm in something like that too right now. If you think the guy/girl likes you back, kind of hint out that you like them. I dont like telling them straight up that I like them, but giving them hints and things work! Who knows, maybe they like you back! Try to figure out which person you like more. When you do, make more moves toward that person. Dont get too attached because if you do, you'll end up like me and getting your heart broken a whole bunch. It hurts bad, and its not fun to go through. If you're a guy (i dont know if you are a guy or girl, sorry!!!) make the first move because girls like it a whole lot more. If you're a girl, just flirt your heart out and try to get your man!!!! hope i helped!!!
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Hi sara, i like this person, but they haave no idea, and i want to tell them, but ...see i kind of have a crush on this other person to, but i really dont know what i should do. Can You Help Me (link)
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hey!!! Heck yes i can help you!!see, it depends on the situation. See i'm in something like that too right now. If you think the guy/girl likes you back, kind of hint out that you like them. I dont like telling them straight up that I like them, but giving them hints and things work! Who knows, maybe they like you back! Try to figure out which person you like more. When you do, make more moves toward that person. Dont get too attached because if you do, you'll end up like me and getting your heart broken a whole bunch. It hurts bad, and its not fun to go through. If you're a guy (i dont know if you are a guy or girl, sorry!!!) make the first move because girls like it a whole lot more. If you're a girl, just flirt your heart out and try to get your man!!!! hope i helped!!!
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sumthing has happened to my friend and i feel like maybe i should tell my parents about me as well. It has to do w/ hurting my self but im scared. What if my parents never approve of me or even my teachers. Im scared i'll be sent sumwhere or to sumone. I need sum help. (link)
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I used to hurt myself too, and it's not ok to do so, although it makes everything feel better. Cutting becomes an addiction, kind of like drugs or alcohal, after you have cut a lot, and you wont be able to stop. Thats what happened to me, and now it's extremely hard to stop, but I stopped for my friends and family's sake. I realized I was hurting them when I hurt myself and my friends were extremely pissed when they found out I did it.
I told the counselor when I decided to come out. She called my mom, who came up to the office with me and we talked about it for a good 3 hours. It feels better when you have someone there not a member of your family because it feels like there is someone "on your side" even if they arent. Your parents want to help you the best they can because they love you. They dont want anything bad to happen to you because you're their child and their world revolves around you basically. Telling your parents might shock them at first, and cause a lot of upset in the family, but after all the shock wears off, they will try to help you.After you tell them (if you do), Ask your parents for counseling. My mom is looking into it for me right now. Try it for a day or two and if you dont like it, dont go back.
Dont worry about what your teachers will think about it. My teachers havent noticed and the only one who knows is my english teacher but only because I wrote a paper on it. And your teachers are the same as your parents, they'll love you no matter WHAT happens!!!
I hope I helped some, remember the sooner you tell, the better off you'll be!!! SMILE!!!
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Well, i have liked this one guy for like a year. and now that we go to separate schools, i hardly see him. His girlfriend of several months is one of my pretty good friends... and i dont know why i still like him but i do. and he liked me last year, but nothing happened and now i just want to get over him, cause i know it will NEVER EVER work. but for some reason i cant stop thinking about what it might have been. HELP SAWA! (link)
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well Ive been in a situation like that, and I know it's really hard to get over someone like that. What you do is find another guy. Another guy that is really different from the one you really like, and make a special connection with that one. Eventually, the connection you had with the other guy will demolish and you'll have someone else to hold on to so you dont feel the pain of losing him. hope i helped!!!
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My boyfriend and i have been dating for the past 5 months. We go to the same high school, but next year he is going to a public school and leaving me at the private school we both go to now. He has had sex before and i havent. He wants me to but i tell him im not ready and he says he can wait. I love him so much and he tells me he loves me to, i just am nervous to have sex with him and then he will leave. and i dont want the condom to break and im stuck having a kid. Plus the main promblem is what will god think of me? Please Help!!!!!!!!! (link)
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There's only like one good answer for this...Dont do anything you dont want to do. If you're having second thought about it, and you're very nervous about the whole thing, dont do it. Wait until you can handle the responsibility and consequences of sex. Dont let your boyfriend pressure you into anything. Believe me, guys ask me all the time for sex, bjs, hjs and stuff like that and i just say no because well, let me just say, it doesnt seem like its all its made out to be. And, its kind of gross if you think about it. About the God thing, Jesus died on the cross so you can have forgiveness of your sins. If you choose to do it, He will forgive you. I promise you. Hope I helped...
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ok ive been going with my new boyfriend for about a month now. our parents have already met and my parents LOVE this guy. and his parents love me. everything is perfect, but for some reason i dont even like him that much. i dont know why, but i just dont. a TON of girls like him, and he likes me alot and is very loyal to me. he goes to a different school but we live 3 blocks away from eachother and hangout all the time. the prob is theres this guy at my school who ive liked since the begining of the year. hes liked me too just a crush, but he had a gf and they been goin out for a year. well a bout 3 weeks ago they broke up. he broke up with her for me. he wants to be with me. well we talk on the fone 24/7 and hes super sweet. i really like him. but i dont wanna break up with my bf because hes perfect and my parents absolutly love him/trust me with him. but brandon and me really like eachother...heeelllpp (link)
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First rule, do NOT cheat on your current boyfriend with this guy, no matter how much you like the oter guy!!! It will hurt everyone wayyy too much. Follow your heart, and if you really like the other guy, go for it. You might like it better with the guy going to your school, just because you can see him way more than your boyfriend. Also, you can keep an eye on him, because even though he says he is being faithful, put it in the grand scheme of things and think about it...He says he is, but he could be just saying that and really cheating on you. I'm not saying thats what he doing, but its happened to me. All you can really do though is follow your gut instinct and hope for the best! good luck!!!
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Hi, theres this guy at my school and i really like him but hes going out with one of the "preps" but i have a feeling that their going to break up soon. My best friend is this guys ex-girlfriend, so i dont know if i should ask her out or not. I dont want her to be mad at me. What should i do?
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Well first, ask your friend if she still likes him or not and make sure its ok with her that ya'll might go out, because it could really really mess up a friendship because of that. I went out with my friend's ex, and now me and her are hardly friends anymore, and she was like my sister, so make sure its ok with her and that she doesn't still have feelings for him.
ask the guy you like if him and his girl are having trouble or if he's gonna break up with her and if they are then offer your comfort because he might get his heart broken. A guy always likes a girl who cares and wants to help him out when he's sad, so if they do break up be the sweetist girl you can be and you're almost guarenteed a ticket to be his girl. If they are fine and all good and still like eachother with no plans to split, tell him how you feel about him and tell him you would really like to try a relationship sooner or later, but dont hang around too long.
i hope this helps, if you have any more questions just ask me!!!
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ok i have 2 best friends. and now one of them is saying that i dont pay ne attention to her! but thats not true bc now that she thinks that shes dumped me and gone and found new friends and she says that we dumped her. but we never did. i try to talk to her about it but she never changes. and i hate it bc now this is makin tension btwn me and my other best friend. she just wont listen to me and i dont kno what to tell her. she thinks eveything i do and say has to do with my other friend. when i ask her to go to the movies she'll say no then ill figure out later that week that she went to the movies with her "new" friends and just totally ignores me when i ask about it. she says that me and my other friend are the only ones that think that she doesnt talk to us nemore, but actually everyone thinks she changed over this past year. i dont want to lose her as a friend what should i tell her?
PLZZZ HElp me!
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Well since your first best friend has gone and found new friends as well and everything, shes is putting herself in this mess! In a way of saying it, she's starting a fire she cant control, you know? She's in denial about you not leaving her, and I think she just wants attention because that sounds like something someone would do to get attention. Tell her how you feel about her and that you and your second best friend are tryin to include her. If she gets all mad and what-not, then I dont think you want to be friends with someone always negative about ya'lls friendship, but its your choice. A helpful hint...Always try to surround yourself with the type of people you would want to be like. I hope everything works out!!!
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i dont know if i should get a new best friend or not! in the past my old best friend dumped me to be popular. if i heard right, she isnt popular. then i got a new best friend but i just moved here so we barely see each other. now i dont know if i should have 1+ best friends. what should i do?
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of COURSE you can have more than one best friend! I do, I have like 6 of them! If your old best friend dumped you to be 'popular' then she was never your friend at all, and its good shes not popular because she sounds like a jerk anyways. With your new best friend, try to keep in touch with her like with IMs, phone and maybe write a letter, because I know everyone LOVES getting mail!!!
hope i helped!!!
~*sexisarabeara04*~
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