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i like this guy..but i have a great bf
ok ive been going with my new boyfriend for about a month now. our parents have already met and my parents LOVE this guy. and his parents love me. everything is perfect, but for some reason i dont even like him that much. i dont know why, but i just dont. a TON of girls like him, and he likes me alot and is very loyal to me. he goes to a different school but we live 3 blocks away from eachother and hangout all the time. the prob is theres this guy at my school who ive liked since the begining of the year. hes liked me too just a crush, but he had a gf and they been goin out for a year. well a bout 3 weeks ago they broke up. he broke up with her for me. he wants to be with me. well we talk on the fone 24/7 and hes super sweet. i really like him. but i dont wanna break up with my bf because hes perfect and my parents absolutly love him/trust me with him. but brandon and me really like eachother...heeelllpp
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I feel this way, if you don't have those feelings for someone then you should let them go because it really isn't fair to them. I wouldn't want to be with someone because I felt sorry for them or because someone else liked them (such as parents), your parents can continue to like this boy and keep in contact with him. If you like someone else though you should let the current boyfriend in on this, and then you will be free to pursue your other love interest and you wont feel guilty in having those feelings. And you should talk to your parents about how you truly feel. I wouldn't want someone to be with me out of guilt or because they didn't want to hurt me.
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Date both until you can decide who you want to spend the most time with. That is what dating is all about. Plenty of time for serious relationship down the road:}
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First rule, do NOT cheat on your current boyfriend with this guy, no matter how much you like the oter guy!!! It will hurt everyone wayyy too much. Follow your heart, and if you really like the other guy, go for it. You might like it better with the guy going to your school, just because you can see him way more than your boyfriend. Also, you can keep an eye on him, because even though he says he is being faithful, put it in the grand scheme of things and think about it...He says he is, but he could be just saying that and really cheating on you. I'm not saying thats what he doing, but its happened to me. All you can really do though is follow your gut instinct and hope for the best! good luck!!!
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I've had this situation before.. and what I did, is tell the person. You could go to your parents first and tell them about Brandon, you can have them meet him even. If your parents decide to like him, that's one point on your side. Now, feeling's change about someone. So for the next mission, tell your boyfriend. Just simply say that you don't know where your feelings stand between him and Brandon. If you don't decide to do that, then id say stay with the boyfriend you're with now. Everything's already set out, and if you saw him with another girl im sure it would tear your heart apart. Good luck.
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well it looks like to me your just trying to make your paretnts & your boyfriend happy. for once make yourself happy. i mean if youve really fallen for this brandon guy then date him. maybe things will work out for the best & your parents will love him too. but if you let your boyfriend down ... dont go so hard on him. tell him the truth but stay close to him! hes that type of guy that will be there for you no matter how bad you hurt him! but as i said make yourself happy & most important block out your head & listen to your heart. <3 i hope i helped xOxloveyouxOx
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The only true advice i can give you is to follow your heart. I think you should calmly and truthfully explain the situation to you current boyfriend. Tell him that you would like to give brandon a chance if he understands you are out of the situation. Whatever happens just remember that in the end it will not matter who your parents like. It should be your decison not theirs.
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